You see how she clutched that drink when he was leaving. She couldnt even find the straw.
Cac vs. Indian Wench on Netflix Dating Show #HOH
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True. But no one wants to deal with someone who cant take responsibility for their actions and constantly blames everyone for the decisions they made.
Both have character flaws but the difference is his doesnt affect anyone but him. Hers does so to whoever she's with as well. Thats far more egregious. The only person that should suffer your self-flaws, is yourself.
If he plans on dating in the future he should check that. Whomever he dates will have to deal with the baggage he obviously has. Many men steady think women over look them for reasons xyz when it's just that they're not pleasant to be around.
She was mad that she fukked up a chance with himYou see how she clutched that drink when he was leaving. She couldnt even find the straw.
Wenches from different race worship white dudes
Lol
Yall think she gonna run back to apu lol
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Can't Change My Damn Avi :beli:
She lowkey liked that shyt
OfTheCross
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Yeah...but he's the one that made the conversation hostile to the point where she would say that. So I find it funny that he left in a huff because she was still willing to finish the conversation even though there would never be a romantic link.
Because the conversation had no more value at all. The conversation in the clip was about her wasting someone's time, then after disagreeing she made a comment that they would obviously never see eachother again. Theres no reason to keep talking to a woman you have no interest in and sitting around listen to her hoe ramblings when you can be out entertaining better company. She wasnt even a good conversation which is the least you should be on a date. Im not saying you gotta get up and leave like that but to ask why someone would is some simp shyt.
He acted like a bytch there
All dude said was "All right. This was fun. Im over this."
She continued with:
"Fine"
"Good"
"Please..."
"By all means..."
"...Exit"
You see it as him making it hostile so I understand how you view the exit. I didnt see it as hostile. I saw it as calling her on her deflective bullshyt. If we are supposed to be having an honest conversation "which he re-iterated a few times) and you arent being honest with that conversation then the one thing you needed to at the very least stay and continue being associating with her for, fails. Then yeah, you can walk away. I didnt see him being offended by her saying what they both knew. I saw it as him being like "Wow, youre gonna keep lying and deflecting..." so
OfTheCross
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You see it as him making it hostile so I understand how you view the exit. I didnt see it as hostile. I saw it as calling her on her deflective bullshyt. If we are supposed to be having an honest conversation "which he re-iterated a few times) and you arent being honest with that conversation then the one thing you needed to at the very least stay and continue being associating with her for, fails. Then yeah, you can walk away. I didnt see him being offended by her saying what they both knew. I saw it as him being like "Wow, youre gonna keep lying and deflecting..." so
She owned up to it, though. She just wanted to explain why she felt like she had to do it. I thought he was childish because he didn't want to continue conversation that he started once he didn't get the answer that he wanted.
Why not listen to her POV and end it amicably?
Because she didnt even own up to it correctly. Thats like apologizing and using "but" in the apology. The apology was thinly veiled as what it clearly was, deflection. Trying to bring up her parents arranged marriage when the conversation is about your own choices with a man you were NOT in an arranged marriage with is a waist of time. I may not have gotten up and walked away but I may have. I definitely wouldve checked out mentally. Probably shoot another chick a "You up? Imma slide" text, changed the subject to something only im interested in like NBA trades and waited for my text response before I left. But sometimes, you just dont feel like doing that. I dont owe you anything, we dont have a history and Im not interested in her or listening to whatever script she has written out about her choices in our convo so I mightve left too without doing any of that stuff either. Other than that brief moment of "Oh wow, he's leaving", in retrospect, she will appreciate someone ending things the very moment they dont have interest in even talking to you.
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THROW THE DAMN TOWEL!
If you watch the whole clip youll understand what really set the cac off. She was talking about being married to a man she didnt even like for 8 years, being a horrible wife to that man, and ending the relationship(wasting his and her time). He challenged her perspective of marriage by saying you need to compromise and put your significant other before you sometimes.
She said she shouldn't have to compromise for anyone and started claiming that dude hasn't ever been in love to believe that compromise is important (which is flat out wrong, compromise is very important in a stable relationship).
He got offended and stated that she hasn't even been in love for her to make that statement about him like she knew better than he did. She started juelzing, saying that she was in love with her husband even though she just said minutes beforehand that she never loved him.
She got defensive first when dude started talking about compromise.
Cac prolly caught a whiff of that Mumbai funk...
