Calling another man ugly is gay and shows insecurity

[Neil Tyson]

I can admit nikkas are handsome.

See a nikka on a street I'm thinking that's a good looking nikka.

If it goes to some uncharted gay ass territory like seeing a dude and thinking I'd suck his dikk tho

 

[Claudex]

Breh this is how it is: 90% of the times...actually, since this is a new age...70% of the times a breh calls another one ugly the sole purpose is to fukk with the victim of said adjective. In other words, when I call you ugly I'm not doing it because I give a fukk about how you look. I'm doing it because I'm trynna make you lose your cool and do something stupid, for shyts and giggles really.

Notice how nikkas usually call each other ugly the most when there's a female around. You know why that happens? To depreciate each other's values on the female's eyes. It's a dog eat dog world and any insecurities a breh has about being called ugly will be picked up on as a weakness.

Exhibit A:

I took my shirt off and my friend said I looked sexy, now I'm pretty sure she was joking but I heard this guy that i went to school sounding upset saying I was ugly not sexy to some other nikka.

So what to do if you get called ugly? Especially if you are in fact ugly? Well, develop a skin thick enough to allow you to auto-respond to these nikkas that try to get you off your center. Remember, confidence is a man's best weapon and every man will try to protect his...and more than half of these men will try to decrease other's sense of confidence (men or women).

But the most important thing to keep in mind here is that the best thing about having someone test you like this, is that you get to prove that you've got the balls to stand-up for yourself. 'Cause a nikka that tries to get another off his center through underhanded tactics can't do so without subtly letting others know (deep down) that he is intimidated.

 

[Ronnie Lott]

I saw something on the Coli recently and it reminded me of some things I always thought about. Specifically once when I was at the pool with friends over the summer. I took my shirt off and my friend said I looked sexy, now I'm pretty sure she was joking but I heard this guy that i went to school sounding upset saying I was ugly not sexy to some other nikka. Red flags went off in my head immediately

Is it not gay to call another man ugly? I hear dudes doing it all the time but if you think guys are ugly then logically thinking you MUST go around thinking dudes are cute

People say this kind of shyt all the time and the reason I feel it shows insecurity is 1) you're worried about another man, 2) the dude that said it about me at the pool was over weight and we rode the same bus when I was in High school so I know he got picked on for his looks (being fat, crusty lipped etc.)

I tried having this talk with my homies they agreed with me but I hear some of them calling other dudes ugly all the time.


Does anybody else think like me? That judging another man's looks all the time is a sign of deeper feelings and insecurity or maybe even jealousy

How many times have you been called ugly in the past 6 months?

 

[BlvdBrawler]

I saw something on the Coli recently and it reminded me of some things I always thought about. Specifically once when I was at the pool with friends over the summer. I took my shirt off and my friend said I looked sexy, now I'm pretty sure she was joking but I heard this guy that i went to school sounding upset saying I was ugly not sexy to some other nikka. Red flags went off in my head immediately

Is it not gay to call another man ugly? I hear dudes doing it all the time but if you think guys are ugly then logically thinking you MUST go around thinking dudes are cute

People say this kind of shyt all the time and the reason I feel it shows insecurity is 1) you're worried about another man, 2) the dude that said it about me at the pool was over weight and we rode the same bus when I was in High school so I know he got picked on for his looks (being fat, crusty lipped etc.)

I tried having this talk with my homies they agreed with me but I hear some of them calling other dudes ugly all the time.


Does anybody else think like me? That judging another man's looks all the time is a sign of deeper feelings and insecurity or maybe even jealousy

What do you think of Greg Oden?

 

[Uncle Kingpin]

how exactly does finding men ugly make you gay? i thought finding men pretty makes you gay

 

[Uncle Kingpin]

Every man knows a good looking guy when he sees one....that's a fact.

On the flipside, its mad insecure or borderline effeminate to judge another man based solely on his looks.....Looks doesn't define a man at all.....

Exactly. I cant rate men on a scale tho, it's a yes or no question. Either yes he looks like he gets bytches or no he doesnt look like he gets bytches.

 

[old_timer]

what if you just clown on his haircut??
or his wardrobe?
maybe point out some unresolved dental issues

would that be homosexual behavior?

 

[Cᵣₐₛₕ&ₜₕₑCₒᵤₚ]

Be real
There some handsome a** n***as in this world and it's undeniable

That don't mean you have to call him that but the psychological trigger that set off the recognition is there.

Sam Cassell is a physically unattractive male human being. He knows it and has accepted it. Trey Songz is a attractive male.....vice versa.


The good thing with most people is that we all have attractive/ugly qualities. It only becomes gay to n***as when someone's beauty is in question and isn't automatically interpretive to the eye.​

 

[Lost His Smile]

The fukk wrong with appreciating the aesthetics of another man? Its not like I wanna pipe.

Just 'mirin brah.

RIP. We still 'mirin brah.

 

[hypo666]

I'd give it a 7 or 8 on the homo rating to be honest. I don't think there is necesscarily anything homo about admiring another mans body, perhaps it inspires you ,many men would like to look arnie in his bodybuilding days or that zyzz chap, are they all gay? However I think calling another man ugly not in a joking kidding way , is rather gay to be honest, it is rather catty and suggests you are a bit too obsessed with another mans appearance, wouldn't surprise me a bit if the dude who calls another dude ugly might secretly want to suck his cock,no doubt he also makes judgements about others men's clothing choices which is also a bit suspect or else he has the mentality of a teenage girl and can't deal with another man he has a problem with in the normal way.

I also think,in general terms if you have nothing nice to say about someone shut the fukk up. Apart from anything else it shows others you are a bit of a c*nt .

 

[wingzboy]

threadstarter logic is fukked up. If a nikka is unable to to differentiate an ugly nikka from a good looking one then he is clearly socially awkward or insecure to the point where he can't acknowledge another nikka's swag. We learn our sense of fashion, importance of working out, eating healthy etc, based on the looks of men who have successfully done those things and are attractive to the opposite sex, and if you striving to increase how attractive you are to the opposite sex, you would know the difference between being good looking or ugly.

 

[Vonte3000]

how exactly does finding men ugly make you gay? i thought finding men pretty makes you gay

What I'm saying is you can't think one wayand not the other. If you call a dude good looking then you must see men as bad looking and vice versa right?

 

[Vonte3000]

What do you think of Greg Oden?

Look at dat gap

whole piece of toast will get caught in that shyt

 

[Vonte3000]

How many times have you been called ugly in the past 6 months?

None why?

I haven't been called ugly by anyone since I think 09-10

 

[Vonte3000]

Breh this is how it is: 90% of the times...actually, since this is a new age...70% of the times a breh calls another one ugly the sole purpose is to fukk with the victim of said adjective. In other words, when I call you ugly I'm not doing it because I give a fukk about how you look. I'm doing it because I'm trynna make you lose your cool and do something stupid, for shyts and giggles really.

Notice how nikkas usually call each other ugly the most when there's a female around. You know why that happens? To depreciate each other's values on the female's eyes. It's a dog eat dog world and any insecurities a breh has about being called ugly will be picked up on as a weakness.

Exhibit A:


So what to do if you get called ugly? Especially if you are in fact ugly? Well, develop a skin thick enough to allow you to auto-respond to these nikkas that try to get you off your center. Remember, confidence is a man's best weapon and every man will try to protect his...and more than half of these men will try to decrease other's sense of confidence (men or women).

But the most important thing to keep in mind here is that the best thing about having someone test you like this, is that you get to prove that you've got the balls to stand-up for yourself. 'Cause a nikka that tries to get another off his center through underhanded tactics can't do so without subtly letting others know (deep down) that he is intimidated.

Thing is he didn't know I said it, he was in the pool and I was a good distance away he was speaking normal so he probably thought I couldn't hear it over the water. If not and he wanted me to hear it I didn't know how to react at the time anyway, I was shocked a man would say some gay shyt like that honestly