Most y’all parents weren’t even married that’s in here on a soapbox. Having a child with someone is not the same as choosing this person to die with. People can be great parents and not so great spouses. It isn’t mutually exclusive. Would you like it to be? Of course. Does it give a much higher chance to raise a successful family? Absolutely. But that doesn’t change that being one doesn’t mean you are the other. You can know someone’s character flaws and attributes that are in tune with being a parent and a provider but their flaws make them incompatible in a relationship. People can coparent and provide a nurturing upbringing for a child.









leave me the fukk alone

I’m fukking all the type of women I wanted to fukk and love growing up