And I said that doesn't make sense if these men don't have anywhere near the amount of opportunities as Tiger Woods.
You don't need to be a Hollywood star for cheating, as a man, to negatively affect you. Would you want your employers to know that you're a cheater? They may not fire you for it, but they will not look at you positively for it. Normal (as in, not psychologically broken) local communities will look down on you for it. You will lose friends. Women may become very weary to start relationships with you if you're not a Juan Don.
The list goes on, really.
I don't see what's so hard to understand about that.
It's not like we're saying women are all evil. (Or at least I'm not..) All that's being said is that they cheat just as much, if not more. That's not hatred, it's just fact.