Can a man be out of a woman’s league simply because she is broke and he isn’t?

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We know the opposite is true and women aren’t shy about letting it be known. The second they get anywhere close to a 6 figure job, or even 60k, most will refuse to take a “broke” guy seriously(unless he’s a felon)

We never hear about the opposite though. Yes we see plenty of successful men cuff broke women, but we never see successful men straight up shyt on broke women or downright refusing to date them, or atleast speak about it on a platform.

In fact we say the opposite when given a platform to do so. We a say something like “A man will take the submissive McDonald’s worker over the sassy boss chicc “


And for a lot of men with the resources to do so, that is true.

But what if a man came out and said the opposite?

Do you think a man with a decent income is justified in refusing to entertain a woman who is on the broker side.
 

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We know the opposite is true
That's always an opinion. And a dumbass one at that.

I see women almost everyday who make more than their spouse.

This is a logic holding ppl back, and as as black ppl we can't afford these stupid ideals
 

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We know the opposite is true and women aren’t shy about letting it be known. The second they get anywhere close to a 6 figure job, or even 60k, most will refuse to take a “broke” guy seriously(unless he’s a felon)

We never hear about the opposite though. Yes we see plenty of successful men cuff broke women, but we never see successful men straight up shyt on broke women or downright refusing to date them, or atleast speak about it on a platform.

In fact we say the opposite when given a platform to do so. We a say something like “A man will take the submissive McDonald’s worker over the sassy boss chicc “


And for a lot of men with the resources to do so, that is true.

But what if a man came out and said the opposite?

Do you think a man with a decent income is justified in refusing to entertain a woman who is on the broker side.
He is but for men it comes down to there background. For instance if they come from money they will not entertain a broke chick. But if they didn't then they just go by her looks.
 
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That's always an opinion. And a dumbass one at that.

I see women almost everyday who make more than their spouse.

This is a logic holding ppl back, and as as black ppl we can't afford these stupid ideals
I get not letting her be the main provider. But if you make good money and she makes more makes her wear the pants. It was never about the money lol. Society has made men very insecure and fragile. Marrying a broke chick is the dumbest thing you can do. At least her family better be well off and have connections. But if all she can do is cook and occasionally fukk you she's worthless
 

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I'd say it depends on the individual, one of my homeis who's a 6-figure cat will not entertain broke women AT ALL, he may fukk them a couple of times but he'll talk down to a broke woman with no issues, he's a cat who came from nothing and is self made so I understand his position.

My other homie is a cat who sees the good in everyone and will uplift and praise a broke woman if she has qualities that he appreciates, he also came from nothing and is self made but I also can understand his position as well.
 
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Not broke but if she possess broke tendencies if that makes sense.

looks aside, if a woman is frivolous with funds, she’s a bum. And a bum will definitely be out of a person with money’s league.
 

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It should that's why marriage was created lol.
I hear you. Sometimes ideal doesn't match what's real. Not always easy to find someone equally yoked who you're attracted to and compatible with. I don't mind being the breadwinner, but I don't want to be with a Wal-Mart greeter either. No disrespect to Wal-Mart greeters.
 
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