Can a man be out of a woman’s league simply because she is broke and he isn’t?

[Diyhai]

Yes
this why men are dumb, they date women with nothing and then get mad after the divorce
its men fault a beauty woman can be in a room with billionaires and feel she equal
women with bread not acknowledging broke nyggas

 

[Piff Perkins]

All the data we have on dating and marriage makes it very clear that high income men tend to date high income women. If they don't publicly denounce broke women it's simply because they don't have to - they're the dominant figures in the dating world and don't need to make a scene about anything. They also tend to marry relatively early, often to women they met/dated in college.

That's not to say high income men never date down financially. The "doctor married to a school teacher" thing exists for a reason. But overall trend/average is pretty clear. Doctors marry lawyers, engineers marry bankers, etc.

 

[Double Burger With Cheese]

There is no such thing as out of somebodies league. Either somebody likes you like that or they don’t.

 

[FTBS]

If he is smart and disciplined he is. If you got something going for yourself how does getting with somebody that doesnt benefit you? Based on the framing, I am guessing we talking about a relationship not just a quick fukk.

A woman can be born in to poverty and trying to work her way out...thats one thing. But a chick that aint shyt and aint tryna be shyt is only gonna bring you down. She will only bring problems.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Money doesn't factor, because men generally don't care about a woman's salary.

If you split the bills shouldn't you care about her salary?

 

[Commish]

Yes, women can be out of a man's league. The late KS used to talk about it all the time. He used to tell women that HVM were out of their leagues and to strive to get with someone on their level.

Men are more flexible, when it comes to finances because most men typically are the breadwinners of their relationships. But, I look @ things going beyond finances. Ideologies, lifestyles, personalities, etc. also plays a part in things.

Basically, I can make significantly more $$ than my lady, but we can be on the same level.

 

[jadillac]

I get not letting her be the main provider. But if you make good money and she makes more makes her wear the pants. It was never about the money lol. Society has made men very insecure and fragile. Marrying a broke chick is the dumbest thing you can do. At least her family better be well off and have connections. But if all she can do is cook and occasionally fukk you she's worthless

I disagree man. Because you might marry a woman who is simply a housewife, bc you all can afford her to not work. So in that case, she's not contributing financially.

Now I'm not saying if she works the fries at McDonald's and you are a VP somewhere, that's probably a bad idea lol

 

[AAKing23]

Yes

 

[O.T.I.S.]

She can be broke but just not a bum


Brokenness is temporary but bums are bums permanently.


But men generally think that whatever a woman brings in will help towards the home. I miss when all of this was simpler, but that is how I look at it. I don’t need a woman to do shyt financially for me.

I actually can afford to have a stay at home wife and not even against it, you still just have to care and contribute to the home but at that point there is no arguing or telling me to do anything. There is reminding me or asking me if I remembered something, but there’s no arguing over shyt I chose.

 

[DaddyFresh]

I hear you. Sometimes ideal doesn't match what's real. Not always easy to find someone equally yoked who you're attracted to and compatible with. I don't mind being the breadwinner, but I don't want to be with a Wal-Mart greeter either. No disrespect to Wal-Mart greeters.

I'm not saying she needs to make as much. But she needs a career where she can actually provides significant to the household income. The days of guy just getting money and women can play house are long over. Economy is terrible and cost of living is way to high.

 

[CoryMack]

Yes she can absolutely be out his league.

If he’s established and built up a solid foundation for himself and a standard of living, why would he want someone who is not on that same level?

 

[MajesticLion]

We know

 

[Seoul Gleou]

 

[young3000]

I don't date broke women. I'm not a sponsor

 

[IVS]

yeah. it wont work out because when a broke bish starts talking i immediately become deaf in both ears. Its a strange phenomenon.