Can a man successfully get out of the friendzone?

Larry Lambo

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Friend zone is silly. Once you express interest, if she doesn't cooperate either it's bushes, or if she can add some value to your life in terms of connections, hooking you up with other women, cool points off the strength of being seen with her, etc. then use her for what she's worth.

Fortunately, the friend zone ends around mid late 20's. At that point women ain't trying to be buddy buddy with guys they don't want. If they giving you that level access to them, they want to smash. I can even see it in a couple women that I know. If we were both 21, they'd put me in the friend zone, but now they don't even bother with me unless other people are around.
 

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Stop chasing her and get a girl, she's gonna want you all of a sudden

And then lose her fukking mind over the slightest of shyt like not texting her back within 10 minutes or committing the grave sin of having fun out in public with a broad that ain't her cause she curved you on all that shyt.:stopitslime:
 

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Anything is possible but there better be a good damn reason to stick around and waste valuable weeks and months to keep trying for something which may never change. Majority of people start off as 'friends' and it gradually develops over time as you get to know them. As long as she ain't stuck on :scust: at your physical appearance or anything else then, if you can vibe with eachother its more or less a 50/50 chance.
 

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Anything is possible but there better be a good damn reason to stick around and waste valuable weeks and months to keep trying for something which may never change. Majority of people start off as 'friends' and it gradually develops over time as you get to know them. As long as she ain't stuck on :scust: at your physical appearance or anything then if you can vibe with eachother you its more or less a 50/50 chance.
Nah, most people start off dating.
 

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Never accept friend zone. That shyt is reserved for beta males. How did you get there OP?

Went on a few dates, expressed my interests in her, she said she doesn't know me quite well for her to pursue a romantic relationship & she said she wanna build a friendship first.

Since then we been talking on the phone 2-3 times a week, she gives me financial advice a lot because she works in mortgage & insurance industry. We going on a weekend away vacation together in a few weeks time.

I'm not sure if the situations is going to amount to anything. If it doesn't it's cool, she a cool chick & she helping me on getting the right mortgage because I want to buy a house soon. I would keep her aroung as a financial advisor

I wish I could post her pic but the coli evolves, she is like a Nia Long in her prime

I'm still talking to other women & going on dates. Got a date lined up with a different woman I met online next week tho.
 

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No. You'll never be all the way out.

The way you start, is how you end.

If you come in as a simp.... she will always view you as that same simp no matter what Persona you put on.

you cant go from simp to HOH.... She wont believe you.

Find someone else.

This
 

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i can't be in no friendzone if it's a woman i want... i'm moving on in about a month or 2

fukk i look like driving her around so she can look good for another nikka getting them those guts

if i want female friends who i just want to talk to and be cool with that's fine, but some of these nikkas are sad
 

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Went on a few dates, expressed my interests in her, she said she doesn't know me quite well for her to pursue a romantic relationship & she said she wanna build a friendship first.

Since then we been talking on the phone 2-3 times a week, she gives me financial advice a lot because she works in mortgage & insurance industry. We going on a weekend away vacation together in a few weeks time.

I'm not sure if the situations is going to amount to anything. If it doesn't it's cool, she a cool chick & she helping me on getting the right mortgage because I want to buy a house soon. I would keep her aroung as a financial advisor

I wish I could post her pic but the coli evolves, she is like a Nia Long in her prime

I'm still talking to other women & going on dates. Got a date lined up with a different woman I met online next week tho.
That doesn't sound like the friendzone, although you should give her the :camby:if she doesn't put out during the vacation. That doesn't mean you need to cut her off, just that you should stop wanting to smash and focus on other woman.
 
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Lol if he sticks around to be her simp husband yes.

Or he just glows up so much she can't resist.

this ^


if she wanted to fukk she woulda did it already..

so either someone else is in the position or she just don't want it.. and if she doesn't know what she wants then she's either young or crazy
and you're better off focusing that energy on a better bish..

waiting around to try and finesse the yams on a rainy night is a waste of time ..
 
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