Can a man successfully get out of the friendzone?

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

No once she not initially sexually attracted. U got no chance most times I would just move on to the next one.


There no reason for a grown woman to put u in friend zone. Its a ugly situation if that the case

 

[Vilify]

Depends on why you were there to begin with. Is it a lack of attraction issue or is she already in a relationship/situation and asked that y'all just be friends.

If shes not attracted to you for whatever reason and she friend-zoned you then it's next to Impossible to get out of it.

 

[PhonZhi]

Went on a few dates, expressed my interests in her, she said she doesn't know me quite well for her to pursue a romantic relationship & she said she wanna build a friendship first.

Since then we been talking on the phone 2-3 times a week, she gives me financial advice a lot because she works in mortgage & insurance industry. We going on a weekend away vacation together in a few weeks time.

I'm not sure if the situations is going to amount to anything. If it doesn't it's cool, she a cool chick & she helping me on getting the right mortgage because I want to buy a house soon. I would keep her aroung as a financial advisor

I wish I could post her pic but the coli evolves, she is like a Nia Long in her prime

I'm still talking to other women & going on dates. Got a date lined up with a different woman I met online next week tho.

Sounds like a smart woman with standards, but of course this is the coli where dudes are gonna tell you to bush her if she doesn't let you stick your penis inside of her soon.

Stay aggressive tho, compliment her looks, put your arms around her shoulders, touch her thighs when y'all are sitting next to each other, put your hands on her lower back when y'all are out walking together, give her little kisses on the cheek and forehead. If she's not receptive to these little intimate encounters....abort mission, She's not feeling you sexually!!!!!

What is your intent with her btw?

Are you looking for something serious or just a smash?

If you want something serious, in the long run you will appreciate her not moving too fast

 

[At30wecashout]

Yes, but it requires being willing to lose the girl who friend zoned you. Move on to other chicks and give the ones receptive to you all of your attention. Ole girl liked you enough to keep you around, and might miss you enough that she wonders why you aren't around.

Get a woman to ponder and you've already started the turn around. Now she realizes you aren't around because you've got what she offered and more from other women. Now she has to think "why do they like him?" And suddenly she might appreciate a bit more the things she took for granted that the other women are now enjoying. This all assumes that you were a solid dude worth being attracted to in the first place. Some women only see you as a friend till they see you making some other woman happier than you are making her.

Mind you, the above point isn't completely selfish, sometimes you can't imagine being intimate with someone. Seeing a dude with another woman is a visual aid: she can pick up on what that would be like for her if she was with you. Now she might yearn for it, in which case an opportunity will come for you to open her up. Been down this road 2 times and it played out the same way.

 

[Thurgood Thurston III]

Yes you can. I was in something worse than the friendzone: the "little brother" zone

I once messed with an older chick who seen me as a younger brother.

The trick is TIME.
Disappear for about 6 months to a year and make sure you look better than you did before.
When you come back they'll start showing you choosing signals if you came back better.

 

[⠀X ⠀]

Yeah. A lot of women keep you around to be the backup dude. The "break in case of emergency" man, if you will.

If she's trying to hang around you, there's something that she likes about you. Women don't hang with guys who they aren't somewhat attracted to.

You just gotta keep doing your thing with other women, stay on your purpose, not be sweating her, and wait your turn.

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

If I gotta do all this waiting to get out of a friend zone, all that damn time I prolly won't even want the bytch anymore at that point. I got a short ass attention span when it comes to women, once your window close I could honestly care less.

 

[G.O.A.T Squad Spokesman]

Went on a few dates, expressed my interests in her, she said she doesn't know me quite well for her to pursue a romantic relationship & she said she wanna build a friendship first.

Since then we been talking on the phone 2-3 times a week, she gives me financial advice a lot because she works in mortgage & insurance industry. We going on a weekend away vacation together in a few weeks time.

I'm not sure if the situations is going to amount to anything. If it doesn't it's cool, she a cool chick & she helping me on getting the right mortgage because I want to buy a house soon. I would keep her aroung as a financial advisor

I wish I could post her pic but the coli evolves, she is like a Nia Long in her prime

I'm still talking to other women & going on dates. Got a date lined up with a different woman I met online next week tho.

Who pays for the dates? What do you think would happen if you went in for a kiss? Does she know you're dating other women?

 

[At30wecashout]

If I gotta do all this waiting to get out of a friend zone, all that damn time I prolly won't even want the bytch anymore at that point. I got a short ass attention span when it comes to women, once your window close I could honestly care less.

This is how it goes. Unless the woman you originally is everything you could want out of a woman (won't be for most dudes if we being real), the time it takes to get out of the friend zone should dull your attraction to her. There are very few situations where any man should opt to wait around. There is zero guarantee that even if she comes to play for your team that she will be into it much, or worse, that you will even be into by that point.

 

[Lord Bison]

This is how it goes. Unless the woman you originally is everything you could want out of a woman (won't be for most dudes if we being real), the time it takes to get out of the friend zone should dull your attraction to her. There are very few situations where any man should opt to wait around. There is zero guarantee that even if she comes to play for your team that she will be into it much, or worse, that you will even be into by that point.

Basically when you're in the friend zone she's like Emmitt Smith for the Cowboys. By the time she's ready to come around she's like Emmitt for the Cardinals.

 

[G.O.A.T Squad Spokesman]

Semantics unless you can call someone your girl you are pretty much just friends or associates.

But you both have romantic intent while dating. Not under the guise of platonic friendship.

 

[At30wecashout]

Basically when you're in the friend zone she's like Emmitt Smith for the Cowboys. By the time she's ready to come around she's like Emmitt for the Cardinals.

Facts. Or she might not have gotten worse per se...but you've just moved on. And you might have found a much more interesting chick. Been there too.

You just don't wanna hang around and be the "logical choice" after nothing else worked. Women are about gen feelings. If she chose you logically, you lost cause she had to think about it. She wasn't using logic when she chose other guys, so punching a clock and hoping for a promotion is sucker shyt. Especially if she is starting to fall off in certain ways.

There is no girl I've dated that I am not 1000% sure I can upgrade from. I chose wrong a few times, others just didn't work out, but a lack of thirst and gaining comfort with myself, I know that I started basic and can do better simply because I've done worse. Pining over one chick usually means nostalgia will make you choose someone mediocre and pass up on a better one.

 

[Lord Bison]

Facts. Or she might not have gotten worse per se...but you've just moved on. And you might have found a much more interesting chick. Been there too.

You just don't wanna hang around and be the "logical choice" after nothing else worked. Women are about gen feelings. If she chose you logically, you lost cause she had to think about it. She wasn't using logic when she chose other guys, so punching a clock and hoping for a promotion is sucker shyt. Especially if she is starting to fall off in certain ways.

There is no girl I've dated that I am not 1000% sure I can upgrade from. I chose wrong a few times, others just didn't work out, but a lack of thirst and gaining comfort with myself, I know that I started basic and can do better simply because I've done worse. Pining over one chick usually means nostalgia will make you choose someone mediocre and pass up on a better one.

If I'm single at the time and I really wanna see what that box is like. I'll go along with it

I've been in that situation myself over a chick that I wanted for years. By the time she was ready to choose me, I had already become aware of women and their strategies so I just went along with it. She conveniently came around when she realized I was living that dolo life in my condo talking about she wanted "stability". She just recently split with her baby daddy for the 352nd time and she had nowhere else to stay besides her parents house.

I aint gonna lie tho, the box was fire and I enjoyed her going out of her way to get that main spot. For what it's worth I don't regret dating her after all that time passed. But eventually I just gave her enough rope to hang herself with and I dumped her the first chance I got and never looked back.

 

[Virtuous_Brotha]

But you both have romantic intent while dating. Not under the guise of platonic friendship.

Technically yes but the term friend zone is pretty subjective, some use it to describe the state of something you have with a female that you are neither official with or haven't fukked yet

 

[Diondon]

You can sit around and wait for a chick to get tired of fukking the nikkas she really want to, but why would you?
Hell is a friendzone?