Can a man successfully get out of the friendzone?
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The friendzone is a woman telling you she only wants to be friends and doesn't want to be romantic with you.Technically yes but the term friend zone is pretty subjective, some use it to describe the state of something you have with a female that you are neither official with or haven't fukked yet
did it work
Thurgood Thurston III
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Yup. She came by my crib one day, years after I last seen her--she was a friend of my sister.
I did my usual playful flirting that I used to do with her except this time it actually worked.
Pulled her to my room and I almost killed. I just didn't have a condom.
lol years? thats a long time breh
I’ve seen it happen twice.
One it was clear that the woman was settling. Dude couldn’t TRULY make her happy but she had two kids by two different men and ole boy was the only one who’d wife her.
The second situation the woman actually wised up after a bunch of failed relationships and realized that ole boy had been there for her through thick and thin. They got married and are to this day very happy. She always posts about him on social media calling him the greatest thing that ever happened to her
One it was clear that the woman was settling. Dude couldn’t TRULY make her happy but she had two kids by two different men and ole boy was the only one who’d wife her.
The second situation the woman actually wised up after a bunch of failed relationships and realized that ole boy had been there for her through thick and thin. They got married and are to this day very happy. She always posts about him on social media calling him the greatest thing that ever happened to her
Can a man get out of the friendzone & be in a relationship with a woman? Or it's mission impossible?
Charge her to the game
Imo it is a waste of time to work on getting out of the friend zone. To be honest you fukked up if you ended up in that zone to begin with.
Might as well focus your energy on a new chic, and not make the same mistake. Ignore the chic that put you in the friend zone. If she chooses up on you good, if not fukk it
I was in the friend zone a couple times in college. One time the girl was flawless physically. Had me like a junkie talking to her knowing it wouldn’t go anywhere. Doing simp shyt like writing songs and drawing her and I don’t know shyt about music or art. But again she was a dime plus a couple extra points so I didn’t see it.
A bad place to be ... and no once you’re there that’s it ... no returning out of the friend zone. Even if she gets with you she will think she settled cause you weren’t the first choice.
A bad place to be ... and no once you’re there that’s it ... no returning out of the friend zone. Even if she gets with you she will think she settled cause you weren’t the first choice.
ThaRealness
Superstar
Not if we talking about a real motherfukking friendzone.
I was in that joint for a while... I was sexually inexperienced and naive with women.
I had a female friend who I badly wanted to fukk. One night I made out with her twice at the bar. Soon as that happened she literally ran home. This girl was diabolic. She liked keeping me in the friendzone for power purposes. One night she told me to come through at 3 AM, I came through and she literally blocked my number.
shyt was disgusting and gross. By the time it got that bad, I didnt want nothing to do with her
I just happened to run into her at bars. Usually I would keep the conversation brief, and avoid her demonic energy. But it didnt always work out like that.
I also happened to run into her whenever I was at a low point. My car broke down, and I was dead broke. Literally slept and drank for 3 days. Went out to get a drink with the homie and she happens to be there and waiting on some Tinder dikk.
The friendzone - Never again
I was in that joint for a while... I was sexually inexperienced and naive with women.
I had a female friend who I badly wanted to fukk. One night I made out with her twice at the bar. Soon as that happened she literally ran home. This girl was diabolic. She liked keeping me in the friendzone for power purposes. One night she told me to come through at 3 AM, I came through and she literally blocked my number.
shyt was disgusting and gross. By the time it got that bad, I didnt want nothing to do with her
I just happened to run into her at bars. Usually I would keep the conversation brief, and avoid her demonic energy. But it didnt always work out like that.
I also happened to run into her whenever I was at a low point. My car broke down, and I was dead broke. Literally slept and drank for 3 days. Went out to get a drink with the homie and she happens to be there and waiting on some Tinder dikk.
The friendzone - Never again
Yes, but it isn't worth the time you are going to have to put in.
The best thing to do is to always set the expectation with women. Let her know from the jump you are only interested in her in a romantic/intimate manner if she is looking for something different move around.
Stop being as available and reaching out to her. You are the prize and carry yourself as such and not vice versa. If you put her azz on a pedestal she will look down on you from it.
Treat those women like a passing thought on a busy day until you find one you really like and she's reciprocating on your energy.
The best thing to do is to always set the expectation with women. Let her know from the jump you are only interested in her in a romantic/intimate manner if she is looking for something different move around.
Stop being as available and reaching out to her. You are the prize and carry yourself as such and not vice versa. If you put her azz on a pedestal she will look down on you from it.
Treat those women like a passing thought on a busy day until you find one you really like and she's reciprocating on your energy.
Westbama Heartthrob
Irregular Zero
Come to think of, I've never been in the friend zoneAt least there's one L I haven't had to take
The Devil's Advocate
Call me Dad
Everybody has done it.. Well I hope they have.. Cause it ain't too hard. People misjudging what zone they are in, is the problem.
Can a man get out of the friendzone & be in a relationship with a woman? Or it's mission impossible?
If you some dude she plays for dates and brushes off convos and shyt, you ain't in the friendzone, you in the DEADZONE..
If you can call her at 1am and she's with her man, but she picks up and talks to you, you in the FRIENDZONE..
If you can tell her about your girl and she gives GOOD advice, you're in the FRIENDZONE...
If you flirt with her, she flirts back but doesn't go too far, you in the FRIENDZONE...
If you flirt with her, she says thank you, then stops talking, you in the DEADZONE...
And so on... Friendzone ain't some dude she just tolerates.. He's truly a friend to her in HER EYES.. She might even be a little attracted to him, mentally or physically or both.. But not enough to actually date you. Something about you is missing. But you cool as fukk and she can talk to you and all that...............
Right there, is how you get out the friendzone. Don't fukking act thirsty, act like a friend. Listen to her problems, go out with her and don't try and fukk, value her opinion, laugh and joke with her, tell her your feelings... You know... Treat her like she's one of your boys. Not totally.. Always leave the hint in the air, that she could have this whenever. But never be goofy enough to just say that shyt. "you know if i was your man.. You know i always had feelings for you... why don't we just go ahead and......."
Nah just play it cool. Naturally being that close to her, talking that much, sharing that much, you being there when she needs, you being the one man she can trust, she can call you whenever, she can trust you butt naked in bed.... You know what you sound like now? A great fukking man. Exactly what they SAY they want in those boyfriends who keep fukking up. And when she realizes that, or even thinks to act on the thought of "what if".... You got her... Maybe for a night.. Maybe forever.. But she's going to test that water................
Maybe
And that's your dilemma.. You putting in all that work for some maybe p*ssy? From a woman who's now gonna trust you to at least not be the same piece of shyt all those men were? After you been pump faking a friendship for a year? 4 years? 15 years? How long you gonna play this game out? Is the p*ssy gonna be worth it? Is that all you want or maybe you really want this girl... And this is your long game to lock her down. Or maybe you the type to put in 11 months of faking for 3 years of a broad you gonna cheat on anyway......
It's your life... But it's damn easy
Thurgood Thurston III
#LLNB #LLLB #E4R x 2 🖤🖤🖤🆚🌀🌀
Honestly, I might not remember correctly. It felt like years.
I have other examples where the time frame was shorter.
All of these happened around the same time which adds to my theory about having to change. They all had zero interest until one day something about me must've changed (I still don't know what it was. This was my peak too lol). They started complimenting me and everything.
For example, another one of my sister's friends started randomly touching me and sitting on my lap out of the blue during this time period. I had a huge crush on her and got rejected by her twice in the past.
I stress "time" because you need that absence so their image of you gets refreshed. After that you could literally do a minor change like a new haircut and break out of the friendzone.
JoseLuisGotcha
Aka Allhiphopsux
If I’m out in a friend zone my desire to be with that woman instantly vanishes csuse If I’m fukking with a chick and we don’t hit it off from the gate then I’m good
The desire needs to be there from jump no realizing shyt later
The desire needs to be there from jump no realizing shyt later