Can a man successfully get out of the friendzone?

karim

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Everybody has done it.. Well I hope they have.. Cause it ain't too hard. People misjudging what zone they are in, is the problem.

If you some dude she plays for dates and brushes off convos and shyt, you ain't in the friendzone, you in the DEADZONE..

If you can call her at 1am and she's with her man, but she picks up and talks to you, you in the FRIENDZONE..

If you can tell her about your girl and she gives GOOD advice, you're in the FRIENDZONE...

If you flirt with her, she flirts back but doesn't go too far, you in the FRIENDZONE...

If you flirt with her, she says thank you, then stops talking, you in the DEADZONE...




And so on... Friendzone ain't some dude she just tolerates.. He's truly a friend to her in HER EYES.. She might even be a little attracted to him, mentally or physically or both.. But not enough to actually date you. Something about you is missing. But you cool as fukk and she can talk to you and all that...............

Right there, is how you get out the friendzone. Don't fukking act thirsty, act like a friend. Listen to her problems, go out with her and don't try and fukk, value her opinion, laugh and joke with her, tell her your feelings... You know... Treat her like she's one of your boys. Not totally.. Always leave the hint in the air, that she could have this whenever. But never be goofy enough to just say that shyt. "you know if i was your man.. You know i always had feelings for you... why don't we just go ahead and......."

Nah just play it cool. Naturally being that close to her, talking that much, sharing that much, you being there when she needs, you being the one man she can trust, she can call you whenever, she can trust you butt naked in bed.... You know what you sound like now? A great fukking man. Exactly what they SAY they want in those boyfriends who keep fukking up. And when she realizes that, or even thinks to act on the thought of "what if".... You got her... Maybe for a night.. Maybe forever.. But she's going to test that water................



Maybe :pachaha:



And that's your dilemma.. You putting in all that work for some maybe p*ssy? From a woman who's now gonna trust you to at least not be the same piece of shyt all those men were? After you been pump faking a friendship for a year? 4 years? 15 years? How long you gonna play this game out? Is the p*ssy gonna be worth it? Is that all you want or maybe you really want this girl... And this is your long game to lock her down. Or maybe you the type to put in 11 months of faking for 3 years of a broad you gonna cheat on anyway......


It's your life... But it's damn easy :hubie:
Terrible advice :mjlol:
 

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It is like asking if you get out of prison. With enough time, yes. The problem is that it isn't a place you should be chilling in.
 

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i did twice, but unintentionally
also, now that i think about it, i might have not been in the friend zone to begin with.
 

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Yes you can. I was in something worse than the friendzone: the "little brother" zone

I once messed with an older chick who seen me as a younger brother.

The trick is TIME.
Disappear for about 6 months to a year and make sure you look better than you did before.
When you come back they'll start showing you choosing signals if you came back better.
This. They key is the self transformation part. The you that you are when she friendzones your asss has 0% chance of getting out of that hole.


You have to literally become another person to get a shot with the same girl. Gotta wonder if it's worth it:jbhmm:.



By default, if you improve yourself you should have access to higher caliber women. :jawalrus:





If she's not interested in you, then just ditch her and move on
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There are millions of other women out there.
Literally billions of them. At a local level there are atleast 30 of them on each residential block. Just think, how many blocks are in your city? Might as well be infinite women.
 
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This. They key is the self transformation part. The you that you are when she friendzones your asss has 0% chance of getting out of that hole.


You have to literally become another person to get a shot with the same girl. Gotta wonder if it's worth it:jbhmm:.



By default, if you improve yourself you should have access to higher caliber women. :jawalrus:






Literally billions of them. At a local level there are atleast 30 of them on each residential block. Just think, how many blocks are in your city? Might as well be infinite women.
:salute: :salute: :salute:
 

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Yea. If she finds you attractive. Ive recently done it. I had to make that first move though.
 
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