Can Black Women Transcend Racial Barriers by distancing themselves from the Vilified Black Man?

[ultraflexed]

That's not always the case. A lot of c00ns and wencher are made from a two parent home and grew up middle class and sheltered from black people and the majority of people that surround them are white. My cousins grew up middle class had there father around them who is a great example of black excellence and still caught the wench bullet.
I remember her telling me that she would never date a black guy and that they were gross. She loved white boys though.

I've seen those types also, mostly with black men but usually black women with still date black

 

[Neuromancer]

This seems like a bait and switch. It's one of the most irritating issues I see on this forum...this dizzying rate at which we easily blame black women for things their men are actually doing in far greater numbers.

Last time I checked, blk women weren't holding parties and banning blk men from them. Or marrying and cohabitating and fukking with non-blks at double the rate of the opposite sex of their counterparts, or anything in the like.

What do bwgtow movements look like? What do blk female red pillers look like?

Blk chicks are dippin their toes in waters that brothas been swimming in since the end of the Black is Beautiful era. But somehow, thru some strange mumbo jumbo bro magic...blk women are the scapegoats yet again.

Blk women aren't distancing themselves from blk men. Vocal blk men have made the stance that they don't want us or that we just need to compete with other women for them despite their unwillingness to work for their own women in return. Moreover the same men are also anti-marriage, anti-family and anti-blk ANYTHING positive about their women. Blk women aren't distancing themselves, they just aren't following men who have other preferences. In a sense, they aren't distancing themselves, they are letting go. Birth rates are going down.

And ironically, the very men who hate blk women and denigrate them, use racist stereotypes and weaponize community issues like OOW rates to demonized only blk females...are the same ones who also can't stand the idea of blk women going anywhere. Here's a novel idea. Instead of always worrying about what others are doing, how bout blk men worry about fixing themselves and blk women worry about fixing themselves as well.

I honestly don't know what chip is on either group's shoulder that makes them think they have the right to sneer or look down their noses at each other. shyt is baffling.

I think most of an hate their mom's due to what ever way they were raised. If we gonna attack any problem we gotta asses where they Stem from.

Another view point, White men will never let Black men stand on the same mountain as them. Since they have the power at this point they can choose who stands beside them and it won't be us. Does that mean black women got a shot up there? Idk but I can see from a self preservation stand point why they would try to take advantage of the possibility. We as black men don't have too much as a group for various reasons. It is what it is. sigh.

 

[Gravity]

The guy you qouted is correct, black women fault but so do black men.
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You should stop quoting me because it’s obvious that you don’t read and comprehend well.

This is the 2nd time that you’ve posted a response to me based on a false premise. The poster that I was exchanging with does nothing but deflect on to black men when it comes to accountability for the single mother epidemic. Whenever someone starts talking about how black women are responsible for their plights as single mothers people like y’all swoop in with the “what about black men?” deflections.

You’re doing right now. Your entire bullshyt post is nothing but a deflection to black women being held accountable. If you’re not willing to deal with the ways that black women are responsible for being single mothers then don’t quote me. If you keep quoting me to deflect from the valid points that I make then I’m just going to insult you from now on.

A woman would not get pregnant if a man doesn't nut in her. You have to go out of your way to penetrate her, unprotected, then not pull out. Why not just not do that and put an end to the whole thing? If you think welfare queens are so willing to be single moms and rely on the state instead of their man, which according to you is one of their 2 options if the man is unwilling to take care of the child, don't bust in welfare queens. They can't have a child without you doing that.

So what is your point besides deflecting any and all responsibility from black women back on to black men? Obviously you don’t think much at all of women and you feel that men are superior. According to you women can’t even be responsible for their own bodies. I just wish that you were consistent. When it comes to taking responsibility for being pregnant you want to share that with men, yet when it comes to how to deal with the preganancy you want to keep 100% responsibility/control. It’s “my body my choice” when it comes to decisions like abortion.

Y’all aren’t even smart enough to see the contradiction. It needs to be one way or the other. If a man is equally as responsible for you getting pregnant then he should also have equal control over how you handle the pregnancy. Are you willing to give up partial control over your body to a man who gets you pregnant? Should a man who has had unprotected sex with a woman be able to force her to take a morning after pill if he doesn’t want to take a chance of her getting pregnant? How can men be equally as responsible in situations where they don’t have equal control?

 

[ultraflexed]

You should stop quoting me because it’s obvious that you don’t read and comprehend well.

This is the 2nd time that you’ve posted a response to me based on a false premise. The poster that I was exchanging with does nothing but deflect on to black men when it comes to accountability for the single mother epidemic. Whenever someone starts talking about how black women are responsible for their plights as single mothers people like y’all swoop in with the “what about black men?” deflections.

You’re doing right now. Your entire bullshyt post is nothing but a deflection to black women being held accountable. If you’re not willing to deal with the ways that black women are responsible for being single mothers then don’t quote me. If you keep quoting me to deflect from the valid points that I make then I’m just going to insult you from

This seems like a bait and switch. It's one of the most irritating issues I see on this forum...this dizzying rate at which we easily blame black women for things their men are actually doing in far greater numbers.

Last time I checked, blk women weren't holding parties and banning blk men from them. Or marrying and cohabitating and fukking with non-blks at double the rate of the opposite sex of their counterparts, or anything in the like.

What do bwgtow movements look like? What do blk female red pillers look like?

Blk chicks are dippin their toes in waters that brothas been swimming in since the end of the Black is Beautiful era. But somehow, thru some strange mumbo

The guy you qouted is correct, black women fault but so do black men.
if men know
1). white sempremacy structure
2). the court system always rule in favor of women regarding children regardless of color.

if you know these things and you still get a women pregnant that you
1). just wanna sex from
or
2). not ready have a kid but didn't want to use protection.

then you face the consequences that come with it, and there is No Excuse!!
how are black women absolved when they carry the burden of raising the child alone

excluding the men that are in jail, if the data says the black are not raising there kids and 80% of black women who have kids raise them alone then that's what it is, even if we removed 20% for men who can't help because there in jail that's 60%, that's a high number no matter how you slice it.

both sides are at fault, and black women look no better then the men do in this situation

your reasoning is beyond poor.
no one is releasing black women from there responsibility for their poor choices, and when they get suck raising a kid for the next 18 years they take on the full consequence for that choice.

but my statement from my prior post still stand, all you do is deflect, everything I posted is 100% no lies told, even basic common sense to be honest. And even then you don't understand.

 

[Gravity]

@ultraflexed You’re a fukking idiot