Can people pop up unannounced at your house?

[the bossman]

my close friends can show up as long as they don't kramer me and give me a couple hours notice

nobody else can show up at all because it's maybe a dozen people alive who know where i live, my mama doesn't even know what state i live in

Damn. You close with your mom?

 

[SupaHotIce]

You can, but you'll be standing outside looking stupid because I don't even get up to check if I'm not expecting something.

 

[big bun]

Only family…

 

[CrimsonTider]

My doors are always open

I’m not some weirdo introvert

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

My mom was doing this regularly for a couple years before I had to tell her to stop. She has always had issues with boundaries, and when my girl moved in, it was, “Oh, I just stopped by to visit.” She lives 25 minutes away.



When I told her to ask before “visiting”, she played victim.

 

[Scaaar]

I just bushes a chic for showing up to my house unannounced . Yeah she was dropping a gift off for me but it's about the principle. Don't show up without calling or checking in first

 

[O³ (O cubed)]

If you arrive at my house without giving me an advanced warning, then outside you will stay.

 

[popogogo]

No.
That's why I live in a gated community.

 

[acri1]

Nope. I might need to clean up first

I live in an apartment and if I had an unexpected visitor I just wouldn't buzz them into the building.

 

[acri1]

My mom was doing this regularly for a couple years before I had to tell her to stop. She has always had issues with boundaries, and when my girl moved in, it was, “Oh, I just stopped by to visit.” She lives 25 minutes away.



When I told her to ask before “visiting”, she played victim.

This is why I like living about an hour and a half away from my mom

It's the perfect distance. Too far away for her to be popping up unexpectedly, but close enough that I can get there in an hour or two if there's an emergency.

 

[Loose]

Unless its either of our parents fukk no. Even my siblings bet not show up unannounced

 

[east]

Damn. You close with your mom?

sure, she just has no concept of boundaries

 

[Regular Developer]

I'd prefer not. its not about the house, its about my time and focus. If its like a family member or a childhood friend I haven't seen in a while, and their in town, I can make exceptions. But sometimes it takes my mind some preparation before being prepared for social activities.