Lmao!
I'm not blaming the men. I was actually alluding to the woman being silly for laying down with a dude she can't get wet for. Attraction for us is all encompassing. And a girl can fake every other aspect but the p*ssy doesn't lie. But that's why I don't do casual hook ups either. Too many chicks out here lying to themselves trying to fukk like men with no emotions when usually we don't operate like that. Unless she's jaded, or pent up or a freak cuz she been fukkin since grade school (i.e. Free spirit p*ssy), chicks ain't out here attracted and wet for a bunch of dudes.
Also I think fantasy can be just as detrimental to women as it is to men. What I've noticed is masturbation orgasms for women are on a whole nother level than penetrative sex.
Chicks literally wetting the bed just from a few small circles on their clit...but being super dry when dudes enter the equation. Wtf is that?!
The shyt happens and I've tried to understand it.
What I realized is it happens because you can take ur time with urself and the emphasis is on the clit but some dudes tend to ignore the clit during penetrative sex.
Women have to be more vocal with men about what they need in bed and if they dealin with nikkas who just wanna pump and bust a nut, then yeah no...ain't nobody excited, wet or aroused by that. Especially not when u just got finished soaking the sheets last night with slow circles on ur clit and an image of the perfect dude in ur head fukkin u senseless.
It's just like porn for men. It creates unrealistic expectations and unless as a woman ur willing to coach a man to tell him what u want, ur just setting urself up for a dry ass night and a lotta resentment towards some poor unsuspecting dude who just wanted a nut.
I want to keep going back and forth with you just to get your thoughts lol.
but really I agree with what your saying and
@BlackPearl too.
I just think alot of women aren't real with themselves about how there body works, combined with the fact that alot of men dgaf about random women they are just looking to smash. Its a very destructive cycle imo. I've always said they sex is highly tied into a womans mental.
Women tend to get really offended when a dude say's anything about another women being to loose dry or whatever. Its like hold up
But we got women out here that can have kids 8 pound babies no C section and other women who can't have 5 pound babies without it. Everybody isn't equal.
Over all getting a woman going really takes time, but who wants to do that or even wants a random man to do that. Like you, its why I dont entertain casual sex or hook ups. I'm trying to make whoever I'm with fall in love and feel that passion. Can't be doing that with randoms

Don't even make sense lol.