Can someone explain how "Simps" negatively affect your dealing with women?

[ScoopNScore]

at some of these responses

SImps are dudes who give everything to a chick and gas them up extra just in hopes of getting attention only to get very little in return.
Things like saying the things she wants to hear, never being able to critique her or say "no" to the most extreme of commands in fear of her not wanting to talk to you again, spending wild amounts of money just to hang out, and incessantly calling and texting are typical simp behavior.
Everyone has their simp phase, and it takes experience to know when you're overdoing it with a woman.

Why does it ruin the dating pool? It makes dating into a useless game where guys have to act extra hard like they don't care just to get her attention, and those corny PUA "experts" just off the fakeness. Not speaking for everyone, of course, but it happens.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

#TEAMSIMP #SIMPLOVER #LONGLIVETHESIMP

 

[Scientific Playa]

All men with money
Spend a lot of it on chicks

That may be true

Here's another simp of the decade. Bet he paid out the anus to avoid jail time. Tore up the condo that he paid for and kicked her in the stomach..... dude found out he was sharing.

but most men with money don't get jail time for trying to put their women in check.



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[the cac mamba]

 

[b. woods]

Taken from this thread - http://www.thecoli.com/threads/i-ju...alkaboutmarriage-com-coping-infidelity.45413/

From Talkaboutmarriage….

"This is the 3rd month that I have been browsing these forums and now it's time to get some help. We have tried and tried to fix this marriage and it is to the point that I am the only one trying. The camel's back was broken when I agreed to a 3 way with my wife and I was humiliated. Also, I wasn't sure if this was best to post this here or in the sex forum. If this is not the correct place, please move for me.

Sex has been pretty horrible for me and my wife. We have only been married 5 years and for the first 3, sex was great. My wife's sex drive all of a sudden decreased and she had little to no interest in sex. My sex drive soon followed and I never really recovered. She also stopped giving me oral sex about 2 years ago. For the past two years, our sex life has consisted of me giving her oral and me receiving a hand job in return. It wasn't my ideal arrangement but we both were able to climax with this arrangement.

My wife suggested that we try to do some new things to try to rekindle our sex life. She made it seem that I would have some say in what we should do but she had her heart set on having 3 way sex. On top of that, she wanted the 3rd person to be a man from her job. I really didn't feel right doing this but at the same time, I wanted her to be happy. I never suspected her of cheating but I asked her what she knew about the guy. She said that he was a sex guru and he could help to spice up our sex life. I agreed out of desperation.

We had the 3 way last week and it was the most awkward and uncomfortable thing that I ever did in my life. Throughout the entire session, my wife paid more attention to him than me. The only thing good about it was that I saw that she was happy. After about 30 minutes in, she began to give him oral sex. I stopped her and asked how she could do that to him when she didn't do that to me anymore. She said that she wanted to do new things and this is what she wanted. It was very awkward and he just looked at me with a smirk. I was pissed and didn't want to participate anymore.

Some part of me wanted to leave but I couldn't. I also woke up and wondered why the hell I ever agreed with this in the first place. I just laid down on the bed while they continued to have sex. They were then standing on the side of the bed having sex while I was laying there. I watched some more and then turned my head the other way. Without warning, I felt something warm across my back. I had no idea what it was but I knew it wasn't right. By the time I turned around, my wife was laughing hysterically and her co-worker was trying not to laugh. It only took a few seconds to realize that he shot his load all over my back.

This is the most humiliating thing that has ever happened to me. My wife enjoyed herself and said I shouldn't worry about it. I feel that they somehow set me up and the way that they looked at each other, I think they may have been together before. Now she is living happy and wants to do it again. I wanted to work on our sex life/marriage but now I'm not too sure. Is this some sort of phase she is going through? She is 46 and I just turned 43. I can accept that maybe I can't satisfy her sexually anymore but I can't help but to think that she told him to do that to me. Does this sound like a marriage worth fighting for or should I listen to my gut and believe that she is sleeping with him behind my back and I should pursue a divorce?"

I'm speechless

a prime example of a simp

 

[No_bammer_weed]

at some of these responses

SImps are dudes who give everything to a chick and gas them up extra just in hopes of getting attention only to get very little in return.
Things like saying the things she wants to hear, never being able to critique her or say "no" to the most extreme of commands in fear of her not wanting to talk to you again, spending wild amounts of money just to hang out, and incessantly calling and texting are typical simp behavior.
Everyone has their simp phase, and it takes experience to know when you're overdoing it with a woman.

Why does it ruin the dating pool? It makes dating into a useless game where guys have to act extra hard like they don't care just to get her attention, and those corny PUA "experts" just off the fakeness. Not speaking for everyone, of course, but it happens.

What you described is definitely a simp, but thats not the coli definition (basically any man that can develop a healthy relationship with the opposite sex is a simp around here). Whats funny is that the same nikkas barking all that "simp" sht, be up on tiny chat till the wee hours in the morning engaging in pillow talk with female posters, flooding their PM boxes with love letters, or making threads begging for their attention. LIke Nas said it aint hard to tell

I see y'all nikkas!

 

[Chill]

I'm more confused on why is there such a huge anti-simp thread dealing on women that has a 5-star rating (so there must be some great advice there ) yet these men still have trouble with women .

 

[Diondon]

shyt, the way I feel, the game needs simps actually.

 

[DaddyTime]

at some of these responses

SImps are dudes who give everything to a chick and gas them up extra just in hopes of getting attention only to get very little in return.
Things like saying the things she wants to hear, never being able to critique her or say "no" to the most extreme of commands in fear of her not wanting to talk to you again, spending wild amounts of money just to hang out, and incessantly calling and texting are typical simp behavior.
Everyone has their simp phase, and it takes experience to know when you're overdoing it with a woman.

Why does it ruin the dating pool? It makes dating into a useless game where guys have to act extra hard like they don't care just to get her attention, and those corny PUA "experts" just off the fakeness. Not speaking for everyone, of course, but it happens.

Don't bother bruh, I said something like this and got no recognition

We dropping non-disrespectful, Webster definitions out chea with little return [DOUBLEPOST=1397589557][/DOUBLEPOST]

What you described is definitely a simp, but thats not the coli definition (basically any man that can develop a healthy relationship with the opposite sex is a simp around here). Whats funny is that the same nikkas barking all that "simp" sht, be up on tiny chat till the wee hours in the morning engaging in pillow talk with female posters, flooding their PM boxes with love letters, or making threads begging for their attention. LIke Nas said it aint hard to tell

I see y'all nikkas!

tinychat? PM's?

breh, you ain't a simp, so how you infiltrate and get this info?

that shyt sad

 

[No_bammer_weed]

Don't bother bruh, I said something like this and got no recognition

We dropping non-disrespectful, Webster definitions out chea with little return [DOUBLEPOST=1397589557][/DOUBLEPOST]


tinychat? PM's?

breh, you ain't a simp, so how you infiltrate and get this info?

that shyt sad

Aint gotta infiltrate sht...these cats dry snitch on themselves in threads all the time.

 

[raw613]

A simp is basically someone that panders beyond treating them well to the point of having no dignity. It can create a sense of entitlement or inflated ego, but I don't stick around if I see that so it really doesn't affect me. Some also overuse it for anyone being nice in general, but I take most of what I see online with a grain of salt.

 

[Rack4K]

'Simp' is short for simple or simpleton.

If you don't know how that phrase could apply to relationships with women, you're one of the simps. Sorry.

With that said, I don't think what they do effects me at all. Hell, I've been a simp myself. You live and you learn. The ones who haven't learned yet get ridiculed, naturally.

 

[JasonSJackson]

They fill voids females would otherwise be unable to.

These clowns allow these females to not have to embrace the fact that they are really just another lonely bish and stagnate them from making the necessary changes to correct that fact.

 

[ScoopNScore]

What you described is definitely a simp, but thats not the coli definition (basically any man that can develop a healthy relationship with the opposite sex is a simp around here). Whats funny is that the same nikkas barking all that "simp" sht, be up on tiny chat till the wee hours in the morning engaging in pillow talk with female posters, flooding their PM boxes with love letters, or making threads begging for their attention. LIke Nas said it aint hard to tell

I see y'all nikkas!

 

[360crazy]

This is a simps general behavior when dealing with all aspects of women.

I'm sure you can see why that is disturbing to some ppl.