Can Someone like being Alone all the time?

[Ski Mask]

As few of you know, i'm a complete hermit, approaching women(even when i know it wouldn't end in a rejection) and maintaining friendships are my greatest weakness.

But, In my mind as long as I have a decent job that allows me to buy things I want and live in a good area, then my life is complete and I don't need anything else. The motivation to change my asocial life isn't there

So I was wondering if it's possible that im just a natural loner or is it something seriously wrong?

 

[Saiyajin]

as long as I have a mirror im good

#NarcissistGang

 

[ThaRealness]

No, you're on borrowed time. That shyt sucks after a couple years. You'll end up being the one dude at work who actually enjoys being there

 

[Aphrodite]

lol I am. I'm so used to being alone/by myself. It's comfortable.

 

[HabitualChiller]

#narcissistgang

We deeper than the depths of hell

SexySquidward

• HabitualChiller
• Nov 28, 2016

 

[Black Cobain]

I love it, going out is just so draining

Edit: You're not a loner, just an Introvert, most likely

 

[ORDER_66]

I enjoy my quiet time.... I go to work then home...

 

[Billie Jean]

It's called being emotionally self sufficient

 

[Turk]

As few of you know, i'm a complete hermit, approaching women(even when i know it wouldn't end in a rejection) and maintaining friendships are my greatest weakness.

But, In my mind as long as I have a decent job that allows me to buy things I want and live in a good area, then my life is complete and I don't need anything else. The motivation to change my asocial life isn't there

So I was wondering if it's possible that im just a natural loner or is it something seriously wrong?

I'm asocial too. IDGAF about socializing

 

[Samori Toure]

I don't think that anything is wrong with being alone if you have peace of mind.

I think that there maybe something wrong with being with and staying with somebody that makes you fugging miserable.

 

[An ashy lil fap hand]

Whether you enjoy it or not, ultimately you are alone.

 

[Ski Mask]

The only bad part is, id while I don't care to change, my mind (inner voices) also likes to remind me how weird i am compared to other people for not doing things a normal 24 year old "is supposed to be doing" like dating and going out. It's confusing as hell

 

[phobos:\\]

Being alone is different from being lonely.

A lot of people that are alone are that way by choice. They are mostly introverts by nature. They also tend to get tired in group settings. It takes lot of energy being around other people, energy they don't have. This is my opinion.

Even if you are an introvert as I described, you still need to speak with other people. It is not too healthy to be alone all of the time. Allow other people to learn about you and learn from you.

 

[At30wecashout]

99% of the time I enjoy my loneliness. It is a totally self-prescribed solution to keeping myself content. Problem is, that 1%

When I hate being lonely, something far different from simply being alone, I really hate it. Sometimes I just want someone to be there, but if what happened

on the street yesterday is any indication, the other 99% of the time will be spent pushing people away...there won't be anything to enjoy that 1% as a result.

 

[ThaRealness]

My thing is that I strive to keep it fresh. How can you do that when you aren't understanding experiences and ideas from other people's point of view?

Sure there's no limit to what you can learn on you're own. But you're always going to understand it through you're own intellectual and emotional filter. True mind expansion occurs through social experiences. Secondary mind expansion can occur afterwards, in isolation, but after a while that shyt will become an echo chamber, and you will be stuck with your own thoughts.

Motherfukkers saying its all good haven't been in the game as long as I have. Im an og. I spent the better part of 5 years trapped in my mind, and that shyt sucked