Can Someone like being Alone all the time?

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Being alone is different from being lonely.

A lot of people that are alone are that way by choice. They are mostly introverts by nature. They also tend to get tired in group settings. It takes lot of energy being around other people, energy they don't have. This is my opinion.

Even if you are an introvert as I described, you still need to speak with other people. It is not too healthy to be alone all of the time. Allow other people to learn about you and learn from you.

Which I try to do, but it's hard finding people exactly like me. Most people i try to hang with try to change me into someone im not.
 

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I'd be cool being alone most of the time but I'm not a social outcast and I'm actually pretty funny so people always want to hang out with me. It's also part of the reason I'm not interested in relationships right now or any time soon. In all my previous relationships the girls thought I was cheating on them when I said I needed some alone time or space.
 

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:patrice:Idk about the complete hermit shyt but I do lose interest in maintaining most friend & relationships I establish after a while :yeshrug:
 

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As few of you know, i'm a complete hermit, approaching women(even when i know it wouldn't end in a rejection) and maintaining friendships are my greatest weakness.

But, In my mind as long as I have a decent job that allows me to buy things I want and live in a good area, then my life is complete and I don't need anything else. The motivation to change my asocial life isn't there

So I was wondering if it's possible that im just a natural loner or is it something seriously wrong?
SPD I had/have this, just get therapy for it
 

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As few of you know, i'm a complete hermit, approaching women(even when i know it wouldn't end in a rejection) and maintaining friendships are my greatest weakness.

But, In my mind as long as I have a decent job that allows me to buy things I want and live in a good area, then my life is complete and I don't need anything else. The motivation to change my asocial life isn't there

So I was wondering if it's possible that im just a natural loner or is it something seriously wrong?

It sounds like you have an avoidant personality...or you are just a hermit...


I wanna do great things...to do great things...you need people...so I tolerate people...


I realized that having p*ssy and chicks around...that after a while...I am like...

"Why the fukk you are still here..."
 

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i personally get uncomfortable around large groups of people. i dont like large crowds and im at my happiest when im either alone or with a significant other (just us). but that type of life is not healthy. u need people in this world we live in.

so its best to get with a partner who is more outgoing than u, or u become outgoing urself.
 

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in all honestly since social media/internet travel i think majority of americans are loners...

i live in L.A. and growing up in the 90s and early 2000s the streets was pack and u could easily meet people

fast forward to today and shyt has become ghost town for the most part....everybody busy especially the chicks are too busy building instagram thot pages and nikkas are too busy simpimg them...

nobody goes outside anymore
 

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That's me completely....I love being alone. I've traveled the world solo dolo....I'll go to clubs alone, out to eat etc and I love it. I'm married with 3 now, and on Saturdays at 9, my wife automatically knows what time it is. She gets the kids and go up stairs because she knows that's something I need.
 
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