Can the men on here be honest for one second?

Do you men prefer women that make you work for them and their time or a woman that is easy?

  • A woman that makes you work

  • An easy woman


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J-Nice

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Honestly, I just like for things to happen organically without having to put restrictions on things. I've had one night stands and have had sex with women within a week of meeting of them. The last thing on my mind was wondering if other dudes hit or if the chicks I messed with were hoes. Worrying about shyt like that is a sign of a lack of confidence in my book?
 
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Do you men prefer women that make you work for them and their time or a woman that is easy? Explain please!

To clarify a few things:

A woman that makes you work: I'm not talking about the 90 day rule or that you have to take her out on a dozen of expensive dates to get the goods either. I am talking about a woman that tend to not be an open book and prefer to take things slow yet letting you know that she is feeling you as well. U follow?

Easy: Basically a woman that gives it all up within the first week of knowing you.

which do you prefer?
Looking at my past it seems i like easy women. SOme of the women I'm cool and have good rapport with are the ones i fukked on the first week or even first date. I tend to resent those that made me wait to some degree
 

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OP's question doesnt make sense. this is a beta male question. i dont speak that language. When a woman is really atttacted to you, you dont really have to work or wait for anything. You as a man should hold all the cards. Every woman is easy for the right guy... if your having this problem then it's just you.
 

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To me it depends on how much we've been communicating with each other. The way I look at it if she's giving it up on a first date just out of physical attraction then what's to stop her from fukking the next dude or past dudes off of physical attraction. However if we've been spending a lot of time talking or getting to know each other to the point that she has a good understanding of who I am, and then she wants to get down quick I have no problem with it. So I don't believe in any arbitrary time rule or number of dates rule but more about how in depth we've gotten to know each other.

But that's when searching for a relationship.
 

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I want an easy woman. I am under no illusions of our chance happening. If she fukked me 20 mins after meeting me for the first time, im not gullible to believe it was my charm that dissuaded her of her "morals".

The problem with p*ssy-holders are their belief in the over value of their twat. As a business man, I will always side with the country with the lowest tax rates. Always.
 

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I prefer women who don't make me work too much.

If she is making me work too much to be with her then it looks like obvious compatibility issues and I'll move on to another woman.

At the end of the day as long as you are not a ho aka being easy with a lot of men who fukk and dump you and your judgement in men is good you can be "easy" and do fine.
 

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If your "working for" any type of woman then you already lost and you need to just hit it a few times and move on until you find a woman that...for whatever reason...you don't feel like you had to work for it...

The ugliest marriages are the ones that start with "he just kept pursuing me and finally I gave in" or "he was just so persistent"
 

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I just prefer a free spirit. so I guess the easy one.

I'm too old to still be working for shyt!!

:beli:
 

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It kinda depends...like it's gotta be the perfect balance. Of course nobody wants a girl to be on them heavy only days after meeting her. But at the same time, after awhile you do expect some level of her being on you to some extent. If she playing you off too hard, most nikkas gonna chalk it up and say fukk it.
this man said it all

dont send mixed signals, dont ignore messages/calls...essentially dont play games. Just keep it real

The problem with girls is they play so hard to get sometimes that a fella comes to a point where he feels like a simp for even messaging a girl or trying to go out with her. Once you let egos into the picture, dudes tend to walk away and there's no turning back.
 
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