Can use married brehs opinion on this topic...

[The Goodz]

Are any of you still using social networking sites??

How do you guys handle the inevitable "who is this, who is that" question wifey brings up?

Just need another man's honest opinion on this who has been through this since I am jumping the broom soon. I have nothing to hide and am free to tell her whatever, but after a while I feel this will become an issue.

Wifey has never had an account on any of them, and personally I was just thinking of just cutting it off altogether

 

[Couth]

Why would a grown man be using social media like that? If you aren't talking to other females i don't see the problem. My girl has instagram too so she doesn't trip.

 

[ltheghost]

Cut that shyt off. I keep mine on because I survived the initial headaches and questions about every bytch you know. It doesn't matter if you grew up with a bytch..let one of them message you and your wife reads the message. Let a hoe like a picture...Sweet God...

 

[The Goodz]

Why would a grown man be using social media like that? If you aren't talking to other females i don't see the problem. My girl has instagram too so she doesn't trip.

I dont use it like that, its just to talk with old friends I grew up with, and yes some happen to be women, who are in relationships themselves and around the world. Never messed with them or anything like that. It's cool your girl uses it, so she cant really trip asking you.

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

@Flexo Rodriguez

Spoiler

 

[The Goodz]

Cut that shyt off. I keep mine on because I survived the initial headaches and questions about every bytch you know. It doesn't matter if you grew up with a bytch..let one of them message you and your wife reads the message. Let a hoe like a picture...Sweet God...

Did you get her to calm down about it, or does it still come up?

 

[ltheghost]

Did you get her to calm down about it, or does it still come up?

It took a good month. A GOOD month. Then after a while we just don't talk about it. I know she still keeps it in her mental "shyt" drawer. I just make sure not to do anything that could set that bomb off. The best way is just to remain inactive if you got facebook. You can update your status and whatnot, but don't like shyt. Inbox convos are death traps. lol

 

[The Goodz]

It took a good month. A GOOD month. Then after a while we just don't talk about it. I know she still keeps it in her mental "shyt" drawer. I just make sure not to do anything that could set that bomb off. The best way is just to remain inactive if you got facebook. You can update your status and whatnot, but don't like shyt. Inbox convos are death traps. lol

So a brotha gotta walk on eggshells from on if I keep it up??

Damn breh, hope she doesnt open up that "drawer"

 

[ltheghost]

So a brotha gotta walk on eggshells from on if I keep it up??

Damn breh, hope she doesnt open up that "drawer"

Welcome to married life. That "drawer" gets opened on you, you just have to learn how to defend yourself from the eventual onslaught. If you keep that social media up, you better learn how separate Bruce Wayne from Batman shyt. It's crazy but when you get married the amount of p*ssy thrown at you skyrockets. A whole bunch of should've could've would'ves start coming your way. As long as you are honest with yourself and not into that fukkery you will be good. But females get weird as fukk when you get married.

 

[ManxOfxThexYear]

Let me holla at you breh, this story starts before I started dating my wife. I was runnin through ho’s

I had Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, etc. all on my page, shyt was beautiful
:mjrdr:
Met my wife, kept the ho’s on there cause it wasn’t serious, things got serious, her family started peeping out my page and started getting in her ear…I never had a chance
:mjrdr:

Long story short, deleted majority of them and went through the whole who is she and why you still talk to her, it was like all those thots decided to put their most revealing pictures up as their main pic.

To be honest, all social media is designed to make marriages fail. You on fb and you like a picture, it may be of a girl that’s not wifey and it may be some random thot or some other girl who was once considered close, it doesn’t matter what the context is, cause as much as a female does not want to admit, when your married, shyt changes, shyt fukkING CHANGES, and you have no idea, each relationship is different but once those rings are placed on your finger and those vows are read, they are embedded in your body, mind and soul forever. I digress, but the point is, a seed of doubt is in her mind, you don’t hear nothing cause its just a seed, weeks later you like another pic or even comment, the seed grows.

You get the point. That fight happens and she brings up random shyt from April 25th, at 1pm on some who this bytch…you think it happens that one time, hell fukking nah, women got steel trap minds and that shyt comes up 1 year from now, 4 years from now, 28 years from now. They don’t let you live that shyt down. You wonder why would they go through all this? Its because they are hurt and they are letting you know. You jumping the broom and hell hath no fury like women scorned.

You want advice breh, limit social media, if you need to keep one, keep facebook and keep it to a minimum. Post here and there but, limit it and that will limit the accusations and questioning. If you can get rid of all of them, more power to you and it will make your relationship that much stronger breh, and you guys will be closer cause that’s one less thing that can come up and cause fights and shyt.

 

[Mr210]

I have no social media my gf has facebook

 

[HALLOWEEN]

Breh just delete that shii.. especially if she doesn't have any social media...

Ooooor.. make another page (thot free) and deactivate your current one...

 

[CrimsonTider]

Why don't you just tell her the truth if you have nothing to hide.

She has to understand you have a past