Can we talk about elders for a minute

Yagirlcheatinonus

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Just because you older than someone don’t mean you an elder. I ain’t calling you my elder cause you older. It’s a lot of old bummy dudes out here. If I’m younger than you and got more going for me than you. Why should I listen to you?
 

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Dummies don’t learn from their mistakes.
Smart people learn from their mistakes.
Wise people learn from the mistakes of others.

Maybe they can tell you where they took a wrong turn or made a bad decision.

Those who don’t know history are doomed to repeat it.

Just because they’re bummy now, doesn’t mean they always were. If you’re willing to listen and ask the right questions, you may learn they fell off because they thought they knew everything.

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Well I feel like we learn from our mistakes. We can’t learn until we make them. I don’t wanna hear from some old washed up dude telling me how he had now it’s gone. I’m only willing to listen to people how have more than me.
 

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Well I feel like we learn from our mistakes. We can’t learn until we make them. I don’t wanna hear from some old washed up dude telling me how he had now it’s gone. I’m only willing to listen to people how have more than me.
Flawed thought process, but one the hubris of youth encourages.
You can learn an awful lot from people who've failed.
But hey, you know it all so do you. Your life.

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I respect elders who are doing okay financially.
If you 70 years + and need to borrow money, you not an elder to me. You a failure.
My 70 year cousin is a struggling musician. Sometimes needs a place to stay.
I have no problem with it. I love him he family.
But i used to call him Uncle, He got demoted to Cousin. (he actually is my cousin but i always called cousins who were significantly older than me Aunt or Uncle out of respect.)
 

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Well I feel like we learn from our mistakes. We can’t learn until we make them. I don’t wanna hear from some old washed up dude telling me how he had now it’s gone. I’m only willing to listen to people how have more than me.

I used to be JUST LIKE YOU.

Life will humble you. Trust me. We all think we know everything when it’s all going right.
 

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grow up OP....you shoulda got the belt more if at all :scust:
 

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Well I feel like we learn from our mistakes. We can’t learn until we make them. I don’t wanna hear from some old washed up dude telling me how he had now it’s gone. I’m only willing to listen to people how have more than me.

Humbling experience incoming lol

Yes, listen and learn from people who are where you want to be but realize a lot of these people only like to hear themselves talk and really don't want to help you get to where they are. On the flipside, there is a bum that could tell you the very thing that keeps you from ending up where he ended up, often times out of hubris.

Discernment > judgement young padawan.
 
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I respect elders who are doing okay financially.
If you 70 years + and need to borrow money, you not an elder to me. You a failure.
My 70 year cousin is a struggling musician. Sometimes needs a place to stay.
I have no problem with it. I love him he family.
But i used to call him Uncle, He got demoted to Cousin. (he actually is my cousin but i always called cousins who were significantly older than me Aunt or Uncle out of respect.)

you're sick 🤮
 

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Additionally, don't let the number of age cloud your own judgement about who is more the wiser between you and the person you're looking at.

So many times I repressed my wisdom and vision in regards to older homies, uncles and things of that nature because I would automatically just assume that the advice/wisdom should be flowing from them to me. But even as a young man I could see things they couldn't and it's important to know when to toss that assumption out and speak your mind. Honor the wisdom you have while being willing to receive more.
 

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Humbling experience incoming lol

Yes, listen and learn from people who are where you want to be, but realize a lot of these people only like to hear themselves talk and really don't want to help you get to where they are. On the flipside, there is a bum that could tell you the very thing that keeps you from ending up where he ended up, often times out of hubris.

Discernment > judgement young padawan.

BIG FACTS...Not everything is so black and white...Brehs unfortunately to often think in extremes or rigid terms when in reality its level to this shxt...
 
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