Can women handle rejection?

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You haven't seen men act like that? My friend's ex was on faux suicide watch just the other night because she doesn't want to hang out with him like that anymore/she wants distance from him after HE broke it off with her.

Just like someone I dated, he called her selfish because she didn't want to be his "friend" since they weren't together anymore.

Humans are humans.
yup, it goes both ways. both males and females have the potential to act that way. but i would argue that women tend to be more extreme on average because their acting up is more "tolerated" by their circle in general. a man acting that way will be considered a bytch, be laughed at, etc. a woman will still get called entitled, bratty, etc but she'll be allowed to take it up a few levels before the stigma becomes the same as a male in the same situation.


EDIT: lol, just saw your last post. thanks for the props but i'm not sure you,ll agree with this post :sadbron: lol
 

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yup, it goes both ways. both males and females have the potential to act that way. but i would argue that women tend to be more extreme on average because their acting up is more "tolerated" by their circle in general. a man acting that way will be considered a bytch, be laughed at, etc. a woman will still get called entitled, bratty, etc but she'll be allowed to take it up a few levels before the stigma becomes the same as a male in the same situation.


EDIT: lol, just saw your last post. thanks for the props but i'm not sure you,ll agree with this post :sadbron: lol

lol...It's all gravy. I like your qualifiers (such as "on average")
 

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Most girls rarely approach guys so they hardly ever deal with initial rejection, which is easy to get over. I can holla at 10 chicks and go 0 for 10, and 5 minutes later I forgot all about it.

When they get rejected its usually after some time as been invested or some sort of feelings are involved. That's shyt is wayyyyyy worse. So no, they can't deal with it, and neither could most guys.
 

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Women are natural pursuers (hunters)..

They usually don't mentally prepare themselves for the rejection (unsuccessful hunt) like us men do.
 

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Most girls rarely approach guys so they hardly ever deal with initial rejection, which is easy to get over. I can holla at 10 chicks and go 0 for 10, and 5 minutes later I forgot all about it.

When they get rejected its usually after some time as been invested or some sort of feelings are involved. That's shyt is wayyyyyy worse. So no, they can't deal with it, and neither could most guys.

Great point. I didn't think of that.
 

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I figure men handle it better because everything we do we have to take the risk of being shot down.
As men we are conditioned to handle rejection. Generalizing of course, but we are much more used to it as women reject men just for the fun of it.

Women on the other hand typically arent used to not getting a man they throw the p*ssy to. THey are used to men jumping on the sh!t with quickness. So with that said when you reject a woman it hits her hard.

Im dealing with a situation right now where this chick i went out with a while ago who stay trying to lure me to fukk. Always inviting herself over to my place in the evening. Always inviting me over to her place on some "i want some company" type sh!t. I can tell shes lonely and if i wanted it i could fukk with no difficulty. THing is... i just dont like her like that anymore and i remember the p*ssy was wack and she didnt suck d!ck.
She stopped by last night. I could tell she's frustrated with me not making a move but :manny:.
Last time we fukked was like...i wanna say 2012 2013. I remember it was right before my trip to Sweden.

She's cool people peoples and has a nice body and all but just not feeling it.
 
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I figure men handle it better because everything we do we have to take the risk of being shot down.
Just like men, they handle rejection in different ways. Usually not so good.
 
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