When men get rejected, we think, "Ahhh fukk. On to the next one!"
When women get rejected, they're left pondering...
"Oh my gawd, what did i do wrong? Why doesn't he like me? This is complete utter crap. My life is totally ruined! I have to find out why the objection to my advances because i am sure he likes me. No no no... this isn't right. I have to right this wrong and find a way to get him to like me!"
Women try to justify getting rejected.
Men are more realistic with it and understand that, "The bytch just ain't into me. Why am i gonna waste my time trying to establish something with nothing when that something perceives me as nothing? I'ma K.I.M." (and that's even if dude wants to put that much thought into it - usually, we continue on with our daily lives like it didn't happen).
Of course, either case can be deemed extreme or thoroughly accurate, depending on who you asking, but for the most part, it's true across the board when the guy has had enough experience with rejection and the women on her own pedal stool thinking she is god's gift to huMANity.
This is why men should continue to do the approaching and date asking.
The only time a woman should ask a man anything is when they're already in a relationship and she has suggestions on what to have for dinner or if he'll join her at the company party at TGI Fridays.
In gist... women can't handle rejection because of their inflated egos and their unrealistic notions about their own image.
As a man, you should be EXPECTED to do the approaching and GET REJECTED like its clockwork (that's how you build your confidence).
That's basically what separates the men from the mice.
The pits from the poodles...
The starships... from the enterprise.
And i'm warp speeded out!
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