Can women handle rejection?

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I figure men handle it better because everything we do we have to take the risk of being shot down.
 

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women's "rejection" is different than men's. some can handle it, some can't. most people don't handle rejection very well.
 

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its much more crucial for a female. we go thru the why's and what if's.some can handle it and then there are those who act like the situation never happened. then u have the dont care's, which is a demented breed all its own.
 

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women are also shot down in many ways but in different ways than men.
 

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I dont like rejection one bit. My nickname is "God", bytch better not fck with my ego and turn me down, unless she's joining a monastery the next day. And even if so, we can still get it in before she hits those domestic quarters. Dont play with my self-importance! Im 6'1, with multiple degrees, in shape, with carmel skin that you can suck off the bone. What the hell you tryin to say no for? Miss Average, Im doin you a solid by even gracing you with my presence.
 

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When men are the ones that pursue and women make it an easy game for them, they take it very had when men purposefully choose not to be with them.
 

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I can't speak to how much they get rejected by men on an emotional level or whatever but when it comes to sex, yeah they can't handle that lol.

A guy takes a no to sex as a "maybe I'll try again soon"

A woman takes a no to sex as "what is wrong with me?" "is he cheating" "who is that bytch" "Do I not look good to him anymore?"

Their mind goes through a whole different process because men and women alike are programmed to believe that men want sex constantly while women can turn down sex cause they're the more emotional creatures who don't think about sex as often. Which is bs really but it's how we work.
 

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Depends on the type of rejection I suppose.

Personally, I only have to deal with rejection of a certain level once, after that I lose the ability to give a shyt.
 

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When men get rejected, we think, "Ahhh fukk. On to the next one!"


When women get rejected, they're left pondering...


"Oh my gawd, what did i do wrong? Why doesn't he like me? This is complete utter crap. My life is totally ruined! I have to find out why the objection to my advances because i am sure he likes me. No no no... this isn't right. I have to right this wrong and find a way to get him to like me!"


Women try to justify getting rejected.


Men are more realistic with it and understand that, "The bytch just ain't into me. Why am i gonna waste my time trying to establish something with nothing when that something perceives me as nothing? I'ma K.I.M." (and that's even if dude wants to put that much thought into it - usually, we continue on with our daily lives like it didn't happen).

Of course, either case can be deemed extreme or thoroughly accurate, depending on who you asking, but for the most part, it's true across the board when the guy has had enough experience with rejection and the women on her own pedal stool thinking she is god's gift to huMANity.

This is why men should continue to do the approaching and date asking.

The only time a woman should ask a man anything is when they're already in a relationship and she has suggestions on what to have for dinner or if he'll join her at the company party at TGI Fridays.


In gist... women can't handle rejection because of their inflated egos and their unrealistic notions about their own image.


As a man, you should be EXPECTED to do the approaching and GET REJECTED like its clockwork (that's how you build your confidence).


That's basically what separates the men from the mice.

The pits from the poodles...


The starships... from the enterprise.



And i'm warp speeded out!


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I think I handle rejection quite well. Never once have I insulted a guy because he wasn't interested in me.. can't say the same for men.

They can go from "Damn girl, you fine can I have your number?" to "fukk you, you ugly anyways bytch" once you let em know you ain't interested..

Rather ponder what I did wrong instead of hatin on the other person for not showing interest.
 
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