Can y'all help me not become homeless please?

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Yea I seen threads about dude lol. Last option I had. I can't be mad. Prolly see y'all on the other side. Lock or bush the thread or whatever I guess


And whats that supposed to mean? Now is the time for you to stand tall as a black man. You have a wife who sounds depressed yet it sounds like your thinking of suicide or crashing out. How fast do you expect prayer to work? Procrastination is the first thing we will recommend you work on. Then if you have parents who will take you in,time to call them.
 

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I know you don't give a fuk but I apologize lol. Some of it was actually aight to me. I just had to jump on the joke train
So you were being a follower and a hater?

:hubie:see how being a hater ain't good for your health....now you wife suffering along with you and she was innocent.

You need to do a purity bath and then a prosperity bath and put cinnamon sticks on the door hinge.

Also buy you a green candle and do the Hoodoo money spell..

But first thing you gotta do is get that hate out ya system.
 

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I really need some assistance y'all.

So I recently got fired from my job at the top of the year. Changes in management eventually led to a bunch of condescending a$$holes that don't respect anybody being directly over my department and I just happened to be the last black person left. I know they felt some sort of way kuz everybody fukked with me, but that didn't help the situation with them guys in charge.

My wife and I had just got situated with how we should be budgeting. We both liked to just buy shyt because we never really had anything. We thought we were about to get caught up on rent, having December and half of January before the first, but then they wanted both months together. That was fine until they fired me in the 2nd week of the year. I was sick instantly.


What we had saved pretty much went to finding an extended stay to stay at, but at ~500/week that was her whole paycheck. Car ended up getting repossessed. I had a hard time looking for a job and didn't really have any experience looking since I always got put on by somebody else. When I thought I finally got set up with something to help get back on track, I go through the whole process and start orientation and have to get pulled out on the second day since my license was expired. Definitely my fault. When I got in at my last job I was already in the system from a previous time frame so I hadn't thought about renewing as a priority. Pretty much just going to work and coming home everyday, and running errands when needed.

I originally wanted to renew on my birthday kuz the original issue date was on my birthday but I had a failure to appear from the pandemic so I couldn't do it online. Some expense I don't remember came up and the extra money that I could have used to pay that off was gone. It's embarrassing but I would think about it occasionally and eventually forget again.


Here we are now. I went and got a new regular ID, got back in contact with HR at the place I started orientation at (Sysco), and they're working on putting me back in the system. We're thinking everything will be fine since the motel people came down about 25% over the time we've been here which had made it much more manageable. And today Wifey comes home and tells me she spoke to the front desk about the next week payment and they say they've been making changes (we've noticed new staff faces recently) with that, changed the payment process and price to back right the fukk at where it was when we came over here. No notice, but I assume it's written somewhere that they can change prices whenever they feel.

We don't have anything to put towards such an increase in price. We don't have anywhere to go. We have 3 cats and I don't want to part with them even though one is a complete a$$hole only to me. Wife is talking about quitting life man. I already took out whatever loans I could just so we could have food and gas before the car got repo'd. Pretty sure my credit is completely burnt by now.


I really don't want to be homeless. I don't want to lose my wife or these damn cats. If you all could pitch in whatever you feel comfortable with kuz I know mfs hit y'all with the Okey doke before. I know it's a lot but 6-700 altogether might have us good til Sysco get me all the way back on the clock.


And y'all go ahead and clown me, call me a dumbass, shytty husband, horrible cat dad, broke ass nikka etc i get it. I didn't have any foresight to plan for anything like this happening and I don't think I acted as much as I could have. I learned now but now might be too late.

Might sound pathetic to say but the coli is all I have left to ask. Most my friends don't have much but they got family homes or just more financially stable relationships so they don't really have to have much.


Anyway if you're willing to help us out, my cashapp is $KBtheKey

I don't have a gofundme. I asked her about it, but she say she don't want that on the internet so this is the closest I can get.

BTW obviously I can't rush nobody to help, but they want 250 today at least. To cover the week we were in the middle of paying through plus a single day.

Do you hear yourself? Why are you so financially incompetent? How old are you?
You need to start with addressing this right here. Make a list of your expenses. Everything. Figure it out.
You can't even take care of yourself, how can you take care of 3 cats. smdh.

How do you buy stupid shyt and not have money for rent?
Do you not have family around? Any friends that will let your crash? You need to talk to your hotel or whatever and just tell them you need a break and you are getting a job soon. You need to be begging them not us.

Go to the local food pantry and get some food, maybe they give you food for the cats too, not sure. But at least you save some money there.
 

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And whats that supposed to mean? Now is the time for you to stand tall as a black man. You have a wife who sounds depressed yet it sounds like your thinking of suicide or crashing out. How fast do you expect prayer to work? Procrastination is the first thing we will recommend you work on. Then if you have parents who will take you in,time to call them.
If she do it then what the fukk do I need to be here for? Especially since it's all my fault. I don't want that shyt to happen but she keep saying she gives up and idk what she mean exactly but I kinda do and I would owe her that if it's all on me
 

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Do you hear yourself? Why are you so financially incompetent? How old are you?
You need to start with addressing this right here. Make a list of your expenses. Everything. Figure it out.
You can't even take care of yourself, how can you take care of 3 cats. smdh.

How do you buy stupid shyt and not have money for rent?
Do you not have family around? Any friends that will let your crash? You need to talk to your hotel or whatever and just tell them you need a break and you are getting a job soon. You need to be begging them not us.

Go to the local food pantry and get some food, maybe they give you food for the cats too, not sure. But at least you save some money there.
Well we were doing fine but shyt snowballed and I fumbled hard. Now it's kinda too late to think about what I should've done. I realize what I should've done but how I'm sposed to do it with nothing anyway? Don't nobody give a fukk like that including family. Everybody wants to pray and then forget about you and say they did something. "oh well you should've did better" type of shyt

Whats the point of telling me that if I already know. I just figured it out later than I should have and small problems grew and grew and we lost more and more and I don't have anyone to call on even tho I fuk with a decent amount of people. You and I both know nobody has to help me, but you don't have to come here and repeat to me what I admitted I failed at
 

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So you were being a follower and a hater?

:hubie:see how being a hater ain't good for your health....now you wife suffering along with you and she was innocent.

You need to do a purity bath and then a prosperity bath and put cinnamon sticks on the door hinge.

Also buy you a green candle and do the Hoodoo money spell..

But first thing you gotta do is get that hate out ya system.
Wasn't exactly hate. Iirc what I seen so far at the time I was talking shyt was trash, then I seen a couple kool ones u posted afterwards. Like 2 or 3
 
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