Somebody has to say this so I will OP
@KBtheKey .
YOU had and have control over all these things and
did not do what you were responsible for. And now
OTHER PEOPLE have to fix it?
If you don't take
CONTROL over the things you
CONTROL, for life you will think like someone who is always "victim of circumstances".
But you are the biggest factor and architect of the circumstances.
Based on your own words:
You let your license expire.
You failed to appear.
You would think about it and forget again.
You didn't read the paperwork about price changes.
You decide to have 3 cats.
You then still said "I didn't have any foresight for anything like this happening" (?????)
I didn't even mention that you and your wife just bought things recklessly because you had nothing growing up.
+95% of us had nothing growing up. That is not an excuse to act recklessly and not make decisions like an adult person.
I don't give money to anyone, period. This is a rule I have. And I expect nobody to give me money.
But I'm giving you more than money: the challenge to take responsibility for your actions and to handle your business.
I am responsible for myself and those around me, and despite none of us being perfect, I (and we all) need to handle the responsibilities.
If you need help with your mindset, I will gladly help you for free.
I don't know anybody. People either already packed in or staying in a trap home with no running water or insulation. Wife happens to share the same schedule as a coworker so she rides with her every day and that can only happen because she don't stay far from the motel. 4am-noon30 so she couldn't catch the bus even if she wanted
