can you be friends with a girl you're sexually attracted to?

[Neil Tyson]

I had this discussion with this old school white dude at work. He was talking about its not at all bad to be friends with a girl you were trying to bang.

I couldn't because it's uncomfortable and id keep trying to get into them panties. He was saying I can't just close the door and people just because I can't control my desires.

 

[Nefrodamus]

Of course, I do it all the time

I just pleasure myself to her while listening to Lauryn Hill's "It doesnt even matter" until her and the boyfriend break up & she is in need of rebound dikk

 

[dc007]

Are you really her friend when everything you are doing is so you can have sex with her one day?

 

[Flay Mayweather]

Yea until y'all have sex.

After that something is going to change between y'all.

She'll probably wanna go with your since the two of y'all was close as friends, but you just wanted fukk

 

[mariahcooper]

yes everything men do is for sex

 

[Chrishaune]

No.....it's a mindset.....you can find women attractive and be friends.....but if you let your mind constantly go to a place of wanting to feel that wetness, then you can't be friends with that chick. Takes self control to be friends with women and most men don't have it.

 

[ORDER_66]

be simps for females that will never want you my breh's!

 

[I'm Billy FUCO!!]

Ladies and gentlemen......THIS is what that whole bullshyt 'friendzone' thing is about. The shyt that all them fakkits on reddit keep talkin' about

Most of the time, nikkas do it to THEMSELVES.

Not all the time, though - you DO have some women who intentionally lead clueless dudes on, knowing damn well they're not interested

But for the most part, the nikkas do it to themselves

 

[MikelArteta]

Be a emotional tampon brehs.

Sit back as everyone gets a turn but nice guy you, be that Michael smith sit in the car as she gets ravished. Drop her off at clubs, hear those tales of all the guys that used her, as you interject I'd treat you well if only I get a chance......as she drops you're such a nice guy you'll find someone great, any girl will be lucky to have you. Wait and wait for 0.0000009% chance you may get pity sex.

 

[Mr210]

nope, we can be associates or whatever but ive never been friends with a chick I wanted to have sex with but one time and i knew her since I was 7 yrs old and started liking her when I was 16

 

[Kidd Dibiase]

yup..

 

[flea]

I can do it but I have to had hit atleast once. If I never hit she can kick rocks

 

[RatherUnique]

What level of attraction though?

If a chic is smashable, i might be attracted and wanna pipe, but it's mot overwhelming. Then i could probably be friends with her, cause i ain't fiending for it like that.

If there is a chic i really dig tho. And all i think about is smashing then na we can't just be friends like that. Cause i really am just gonna have one goal and it will get frustrating trying to act like i don't. We could be friends tho if she knew i wanted to smash and i wasn't tryna' hide it. But then id look like a lame, so actually no again.

 

[Turbulent]

you can if you manage to control your desires. the question then becomes, why would you want to be friends with someone who you have to control your feelings with? unless the benefit of their friendship is worth the restraint, i don't see the point. In other words, she better be a GREAT ride or die friend who puts you on game, who you can count on emotionally, or she's helping you get money. In most of these scenarios, the "friend" is not much of these things and you're just trying to weasel/con yourself into some p*ssy. most of these dudes end up playing themselves. to those who succeed

Spoiler

but if you fail and blame the chick

 

[aXiom]

Yes! Easily. Trying to be friends with a female you have feelings for or developing feelings for a female friend is where dudes fukk up.