can you be friends with a girl you're sexually attracted to?

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most of the time you guys aren't actually friends like both of you think you are with one another, 99% of the time shyt falls to the wayside over a period of time


i won't say there might not be the rare exception, but understand that will likely fall through too
 

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No. I have to cut them loose. Gonna still to try to get the goods. Too many in the sea. But then they can't deal with the 'rejection'. :comeon:
 
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No because if she has already rejected me but offered to be friends then it sounds more like a defense mechanism she uses to let down men easily.

I haven't ever even met a woman who invests her time in really being a grown mans friend unless she has had relations with them previously or plans to do so in the future.







The truth in this statement, brehs. :wow:

It's a war out here... and I can't tell you how cold it got for me when I finally realized that I don't really have any women friends.

And I mean, FRIENDS, people that I could just talk to, and tell different things and share experiences with on a non-sexual level.

It's rare that men and women can really be friends... we already know most men tryna get in the woman's pants, but it's the same for them too.

I can't tell you how many women were interested in me, but they weren't my type (one was married, one was fat, one wasn't operating with a full deck)

But I decided I would let them down easy, cause I know how it feels to get rejected... and I would prefer to be let down easy.

plus I realized how hard it must be for a woman to approach a man in the first place...

So I let them down easy on the pretense of, let's just be friends...





BREH. :mjlol:

One of them (the fat one who actually is really intelligent) started texting me the other day duuring the election and expressing how angry she was that the repubs were being voted into office.

So we're texting about that, and I'm thinking everything is good.

Next thing I know, she just came out of left field and was like, "I'm taking you on a date to the movies next week..."

I've already told her several times that I'm just not interested.

I ddn't respond to her after that. Next thing I know, she's texting me the next day saying it again... then finally she texts me that night talking about, "why aiin't you responding?"




The married chick I had to cut off completely. I thought we could just be friends and maybe she would put me up on some game with some of these younger girls (she's early 40's)

but every time I think we're just having a friendly conversation about this or thhat, it always winds up going back to her trying to finaggle her way into my pants...






so that's one side of the coin...

The other side of the coin is, most women that really are just trying to be friends with me... if they're attractive, I secretly want them, and if they offered it to me, it'd be hard not to take it. :yeshrug:
 

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No.

The moment someone is hitting that or already is, you're natural instincts will kick in.

fukk around, and piss on the bytch to mark your territory on some testosterone shyt.
 
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