Can you call yourself a man if you never been in a fight?

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I fought a lot in school. Less as I got older and pretty much never now in my thirties. I'm extremely laid back so it would take a lot to rile me up to that level. Plus I stay in the gym and it shows so like 90% of brehs probably wouldn't want to get into it with me.

The risks get way worse as you get older like you could punch someone and kill them by accident if they landed badly then that's 10 years in jail for manslaughter. But if I'm in a no fukk giving kinda mood I will still scrap today.
 

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I fought a lot in school. Less as I got older and pretty much never now in my thirties. I'm extremely laid back so it would take a lot to rile me up to that level. Plus I stay in the gym and it shows so like 90% of brehs probably wouldn't want to get into it with me.

The risks get way worse as you get older like you could punch someone and kill them by accident if they landed badly then that's 10 years in jail for manslaughter. But if I'm in a no fukk giving kinda mood I will still scrap today.
I wanna fight you
 

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The last fight I was in was 2014. I won, but I had so many aches and pains from exerting that much energy that I couldn’t even get out of bed the next day. That’s when I knew the :flabbynsick: life was imminent.


Most dudes now a days don’t fight. If they losing, other people will jump in or guns/knives will come into play.



And worrying about who another man fights is :dame:
 

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The last fight I was in was 2014. I won, but I had so many aches and pains from exerting that much energy that I couldn’t even get out of bed the next day. That’s when I knew the :flabbynsick: life was imminent.


Most dudes now a days don’t fight. If they losing, other people will jump in or guns/knives will come into play.



And worrying about who another man fights is :dame:
Aren't you 50:gucci:
Making you 43 in 2014:mjtf:

Old ass nikka was going thru it:laff:
 

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I think the simple answer to the question is yes but it depends on the environment the guy grew up in and his individual experiences.

In most cases, especially in the hood, that would be difficult. People are prone to test you blatantly in the hood.
 

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I fought a lot in school. Less as I got older and pretty much never now in my thirties. I'm extremely laid back so it would take a lot to rile me up to that level. Plus I stay in the gym and it shows so like 90% of brehs probably wouldn't want to get into it with me.

The risks get way worse as you get older like you could punch someone and kill them by accident if they landed badly then that's 10 years in jail for manslaughter. But if I'm in a no fukk giving kinda mood I will still scrap today.

This right here.

A quick scrap with a dumb nikka can set you back.
 

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One of the things that mark the transition from boyhood to manhood is taking part in manhood rituals. This is how our ancestors, of any race, have transitioned into manhood for thousands of years. One of those rituals is engaging in combat.

Not participating in those rituals doesn't necessarily mean that you're not a man but is most likely a sign that you're insecure about your manhood. And manhood insecurity is becoming very common in modern culture because modern culture has done away with providing those types of rituals for boys entering into adulthood.

So you have to either seek them out or provide them for your sons if you are a father.
 

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Fighting doesn't have anything to do with manhood.

Manhood is about taking care of your family, fullfilling your responsibilities, and having the backbone to stand on your own.

A smart man is likely already resolved the issue before there is ever need to fight.
 

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I only throw hands with people that step out of line but mostly will tell them to back off. I can control my emotions.
 
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These mf would tell you they never been in a fight and that doesn’t mean they’re not a man but they will argue like females on here :mjlol:
 

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-You can still be a man & not be out here fighting dudes. I wouldn't consider any of the little scraps I've been in to be full on "fights" really.

-My kids & fam asked why I'll ignore or dismiss people instead instead of fighting. I told them straight up if I don't stand to gain anything, win or lose, it isn't worth my time. I barely waste time arguing.
 
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