Can you develop charisma

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No, that's something you have naturally if it's one of your personality traits some people have it and others don't, but luckily for me, I'm one of those who have it.

It's not the end of the world tho nor does it make you look “uncool” to others, don't listen to those youtube nikkas selling dreams.

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No. Charisma is an innate personality trait that you are either born with or not. Grifters on youtube that claim otherwise are just taking advantage of vulnerable people to get them to buy shytty books and seminars.
 

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Yes, you can. You would have to learn to like or give off the appearance that you enjoy being around people. I was always friendly, but in 2005 I read How to win friends and influence people by Dale Carnegie and it changed my life forever! I believe the audio book is on YouTube. The whole premise of the book is make other people feel like they're important too and it'll open all kinds of doors for you. Obama did it for people of color and Trump does it for white supremist. It's a universal principal.
 

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Yep working in sales I've trained many people to turn it on, no different than running game to me :manny:
 

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You can build on it, but it probably has a cap.

People gotta realize that life is a like a real life RPG with stats. You can work on anything in this life
 

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I would say Trump has bravado, not confidence nor charisma.

This resonates well with people who have imposter syndrome aka his base.

Trump actually is charismatic. He's just dumb. If he was intelligent and a good speaker, he'd have had his supporters on some other other other shyt
 

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i know this ain't no pro wrestling thread, but Eddie Guerrero went from a vanilla midget to one of the most charismatic people on wrestling.

if it's possible to do in fake wrestling, it's probably possible to do in real life.
 

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No, that's something you have naturally if it's one of your personality traits some people have it and others don't, but luckily for me, I'm one of those who have it.

It's not the end of the world tho nor does it make you look “uncool” to others, don't listen to those youtube nikkas selling dreams.

:manny:

No. Charisma is an innate personality trait that you are either born with or not. Grifters on youtube that claim otherwise are just taking advantage of vulnerable people to get them to buy shytty books and seminars.
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A lot goes into it, such as looks and voice

ugly dudes have charisma but they shaped it early in childhood being around other ppl, and I’d say with ugly ppl it’s based even more on social status

see: Charlamagne

it’s like asking can you start playing basketball at 16 and have hopes of joining the NBA

I'm ugly and I developed charisma later in my childhood.

Everyone I know tells me I'm one of the most charismatic people they've ever met. I light up every room I'm in and I make friends very easily.

Maybe I had other traits that were conducive to developing charisma but I certainly didn't have it until I was like 13 - 14.
 

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No, but wit and rhetoric can be developed by just talking and debating/arguing with friends.They kind of replace charisma, only difference being a person with charisma ultimately outshines you in a room.
 

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yes, but its gonna take putting yourself in social situations and putting effort in
 
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