Can You Fall in Love with Someone You're not Attracted to?

[TheFemalePerspective]

how is it possible for a woman?

I know plenty of women (myself included) who have found someone attractive based on their personality. I wouldn't even say I have a 'type' when it comes to 'looks' because my type depends on the person's character.

 

[ilovejesus]

NO

 

[Michael's Black Son]

not my shallow ass

 

[TheFemalePerspective]

I also think people will convince/delude themselves that someone is attractive that they didn't initially think was, whether it be because they have a banging personality or a ton of money

But beauty fades, personality remains. Wouldn't you agree?

 

[Turbulent]

if you like someone and you start wanting/craving their attention and affection, you will eventually start to develop a sexual attraction towards them. this is true for both males and females IMO.

 

[Taadow]

I think there's something attractive about every woman.






I'm not a hoe, though.

 

[MekaCatt]

That's how is was with my ex. I was so not attracted to him physically at first, but he was so smart, funny, interesting, and different. I couldn't help but fall in love.

 

[Mr. Somebody]

Beauty on the outside and on the inside are 2 different things. Given enough time a man can fall for a woman many individuals would consider unattractive. This is more likely to happen to a woman though because they look deeper than the physical. Many women that were size queens in their youth are with men they thought would have never been possible in their demonic state of mind, friends.

 

[Malta]

But beauty fades, personality remains. Wouldn't you agree?

Sure it fades, but what happens on the day you meet a man that looks good and has a great personality, you gonna be looking at your ug mug boyfriend with the heart of gold with some level of buyers remorse.

 

[Mr. Somebody]

Sure it fades, but what happens on the day you meet a man that looks good and has a great personality, you gonna be looking at your ug mug boyfriend with the heart of gold with some level of buyers remorse.

These are murky waters you're traveling into. I guess she'll have to stay in the house.

 

[Ronnie Lott]

Plenty of people that fall in love with people they aren't neccesarily attracted to. I think its worse that there are people who get in relationships with "attractive" people and they ignore all the bad personality traits about that person

 

[Tommy Knocks]

Tried it, didn't work. But I have been with a girl that was average and then once we got together she re-branded herself, went from dressing like a nerd with braces to a professional woman. One day I just woke up and was like I found a diamond, I just had to dust some dirt off it. We almost got married.

I wish I could find something like that again. These pretty girl confident broads are hard work and have mental issues, man.

 

[61 Corpses]

It's cute that you're trying to flirt with me online, but I'm NOT interested.

you're beautiful

 

[Grifter]

Love is more mental, I have the face for some women I can't stand.

 

[Mountain]

Nah I dont think its possible, even for women. I think falling for someone is mostly the result of sexual attraction, so physical appeal has to be a factor imo.