Can you fault a signifanct other for doing you wrong if...

[Music Fiend]

You aren't on top of your game? aren't bringing enough to the table?

Theres 2 types of ppl in this world, one side believes you gotta stay at the top of your game and alwys keep it tight, so ya chick/dude ain't going nowhere or choosin.

Then the other type which believes, relationships should function like friendships where you are allowed to fail, look bad, fall off and the person should still remain loyal and decent to you.

 

[wet landscapes]

the person could always leave of they aren't being fufilled tho

 

[Music Fiend]

the person could always leave of they aren't being fufilled tho

Right. Even in the case they do not cheat, if she leaves its

My homie tho, all the chicks that leave him when he's not doing well for himself he stays friends with cuz in his mind he'll just he cant blame her for leaving or expect her to stick around with him.

The crew always calling me bitter cuz I don't wanna be anywhere around old chicks.

 

[karim]

Relationships aren't supposed to be sport. Nobody can constantly be on top of their game. If she starts choosing the moment i have a bad day, she's actually doing me a favor when she leaves.

 

[Couth]

Imo people are opportunists. Everyones looking out for themselves so i wouldn't blame someone for doing what comes naturally.

And yea i would stay friends with her as long as we were still networking.

 

[Tommy Knocks]

depends. is he falling off PERSONALLY, or mutually in the relationship. If you're neglecting the chick, or your gaining weight, stroke falling off, you not taking her out, just making the relationship dull, you just not fulfilling her, then wtf she supposed to do. My nikka Darryl got what she need. If its personal tho, like you just not wearing the flashy gear, or you got laid off and going through some shyt and its not even effecting her in any way, wtf, she better be loyal or give her the

 

[Music Fiend]

depends. is he falling off PERSONALLY, or mutually in the relationship. If you're neglecting the chick, or your gaining weight, stroking falling off, you just not fulfilling her, then wtf she supposed to do. My nikka Darryl got what she need. If its personal tho, like you just not wearing the flashy gear, or you got laid off and going through some shyt and its not even effecting her in any way, wtf, she better be loyal or give her the

Good point. In the sense of weight gain (for both sexes), you gain weight, let's say 20 lbs. Nothing too out of control, but very noticeable. your gf or bf leaves you.

can you blame them or be mad at anyone but yourself?

 

[MAKAVELI25]

Relationships aren't supposed to be sport. Nobody can constantly be on top of their game. If she starts choosing the moment i have a bad day, she's actually doing me a favor when she leaves.

Cosign this. Loyalty>>>>Everything else

If you find a ride or die chick that you are attracted to AND could see a future with you better snatch that up and lock it down. I wish someone would've told me that when I was younger

 

[Tommy Knocks]

Good point. In the sense of weight gain (for both sexes), you gain weight, let's say 20 lbs. Nothing too out of control, but very noticeable. your gf or bf leaves you.

can you blame them or be mad at anyone but yourself?

depends, is the weight gain effecting some kind of performance? I mean you're not married, and technically they want what they signed up for, you looked a certain way when they met you, now you're false advertising by going from Chris Brown to Mark Henry. If its your wife and you got her preg and she gained weight, then you better stay your ass, you're the cause of her getting fat, you did that to her, so wtf you expect. She didnt have those stretch marks on her belly before you planted your seed in her. Thats why Im saying if the cause is effect personal or mutual. if its mutually effecting, then they have the right to leave, but if its their personal issue, you should help them. well, if you care about them at least.

If a girl is doing something thats starting to effect whats going on in my life, I gotta start re-evaluating something, but if shes having a personal melt down, I wont leave, Ill try to help her through it.

 

[Taadow]

She betta be CAREFUL WHAT SHE SAY TO MEEEEEEEE...
'cause it might turn aROUND on her!

She betta be CAREFUL WHAT SHE DO TO MEEEEEE...
'cause somebody might do it to herrrrr.

If the shoe fits - wear it gurrrrrrrrrrrrrrrl. I yiy YIY YIY I yiy YIY YIYYYYYYYYYYY

 

[Buckeye Fever]

If she aint woman enough to tell you instead of goin behind your back, she aint shyt.

Either way, she catchin these hot ones. Word to Forensic Files.

 

[Diondon]

So she gonna cheat if I grow a belly, breh?
Communication is the key I think.

 

[MarcMan]

I can and I will 'fault' her. The way it should work is that you support one another when the going gets tough. Any woman that gets shaky in my time of need is getting thrown in the bushes regardless.

 

[Steve Piffler]

i expect communication. we all fall off or do things that our significant other doesn't like. i want her to tell me what i'm doing (or not doing) that makes her feel a certain type of way. give me a chance to explain why i'm behaving in that manner or fix it. sometimes you don't even realize that you may have fell off. it's gradual. now once she explains to me what the problem is and i do nothing about it, then it is what it is at that point. you OWE someone that you love and care about at least an explanation on why you are starting to not feel the relationship anymore.

 

[Buckeye Fever]

I was cheated on back in 2001.
I vowed if that ever happened to me again, there would be hell to pay