Can you respect a girl who gave it up too soon?

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I'm not getting into a relationship without knowing what the sex is like--the sooner she gives in the better for both of us :sas2:.

I'm pretty aggressive anyways, so if she ain't putting out within 2-4 dates then :camby:. I usually get what I want in this regard (handsome fly nikka problems:blessed:) so yeah, I respect them.

The insecure will wonder if she did this with everyone else...short answer is, you'll never know 100%. Who cares as long as she is clean and her body count is respectably modest
 

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women dont get it and i undestand 100%
alot of these cats are living eddie haskell's
they will promise you the moon for that p*ssy
and then after that nut you meet the real him.
(a game runner)
all of my great ones gave me the p*ssy
the 1st night because it was that animalistic.

(hope you dont look down on me but these panties are coming off)
still tight with them all to this day.
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Yup. My best relationships were all 1st nighters. When you click, you click. Good post.
 

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I'm not getting into a relationship without knowing what the sex is like--the sooner she gives in the better for both of us :sas2:.

I'm pretty aggressive anyways, so if she ain't putting out within 2-4 dates then :camby:. I usually get what I want in this regard (handsome fly nikka problems:blessed:) so yeah, I respect them.

The insecure will wonder if she did this with everyone else...short answer is, you'll never know 100%. Who cares as long as she is clean and her body count is respectably modest


:jbhmm:

:heh:
 

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Depends on how soon. If she give it up on the first night then probably nah. I like the chase!
 

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you gotta take responsibility for who
ever you let into your experience....
but if you want the ball in your court dig this.
any man that want some p*ssy bad enough
will eat that said p*ssy.
I know broads that have used nikkas for
head for over a year with no sex to make
sure he was on his shyt.
if a nikka switch up after getting p*ssy
but done sucked your p*ssy for over a year
it's still a win.
why are women so cerebral and keep score
when it comes to fukkin?
be safe and fukk up some sheets.
if you give p*ssy to a nikka that will put your
business in the streets you gotta question your
judge of character
.

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Cat Piss out here dropping gems.

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IMO this is extremely important when deciding to sleep with someone. First night or not.

Regardless, if you have poor judge in character... it wont matter.
 

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All the girls I know in college that was playing the field ended up in good marriages, kids, the whole 9. All the chicks I see talkin bout waiting still in the waiting room. shyt is hilarious. I don't even consider girls slut or hoes unless they fukkin up other people lives doing it. If you a grown woman having sex on your own terms, and not harming anybody then so be it. :manny:
 

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could you respect a girl who gave it up way too soon? Can a relationship that is primarily based on sex actually last?

Those are two very different questions.

"Could I respect a girl who gave it up way too soon?"
Well...what is "too soon"?
I respect a girl who knows she doesn't wanna play games - whether that means she's upfront that she wants to get down quick,
OR that means she's upfront that she doesn't even want to go there until she's committed to somebody.

"Can a relationship that is primarily based on sex actually last?"
Yes...as long as that sex lasts. Which is a dangerous position (no pun intended).
 

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What I don't understand is this chick is smart too, has her own career. I don't understand why she feels like she has to act like this.

Maybe she enjoys sex?

But also Because there are a lot of women who believe that sex or lust = love due to the lack of love shown we received from our fathers or families. That coupled with low self esteem can breed women that seek validation and love through sex.

When I was younger I was so ignorant that Id act as if I felt like a guy showing interest in my sexually meant he liked me and wanted to date me. Even if I didn't want to give it up, I would because I felt like he wouldn't like me anymore if I didn't. I'd guilt myself into it.

Not every person comes from a loving or healthy home, hence why don't know what showing love actually is. So we confuse other things for it.

That's just how I feel based from personal experience
 

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Maybe she enjoys sex?

But also Because there are a lot of women who believe that sex or lust = love due to the lack of love shown we received from our fathers or families. That coupled with low self esteem can breed women that seek validation and love through sex.

When I was younger I was so ignorant that Id act as if I felt like a guy showing interest in my sexually meant he liked me and wanted to date me. Even if I didn't want to give it up, I would because I felt like he wouldn't like me anymore if I didn't. I'd guilt myself into it.

Not every person comes from a loving or healthy home, hence why don't know what showing love actually is. So we confuse other things for it.

That's just how I feel based from personal experience

Enjoy sex. Fine. But why advertise that shyt?


Anyway, this chick comes from a two parent household; parents are still married. She has a good relationship with her family.
 

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I lose respect for a women if she doesnt have sex with me on the first date
 
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