Can you respect a girl who gave it up too soon?

[Ashley Banks]

that's something to applaud.
but again juice.....i'm speaking from a honest
male perspective......i'm giving you what i'd
give a sister or a neice.
ive never bedded a virgin because i knew that
i wouldnt do the right thing even as a boy.
I can sell sand to arabs and ice to eskimos.
I wouldnt wish me on the most cut throat harlot.

I think a woman should just do what she's comfortable with, if you like waiting then do thay if you don't then don't. If a guy is going to play you or if he wants something serious, how long it takes to have sex with him isn't going to change that. Your way wouldn't work for me, I would without a doubt kill myself after the first guy doesn't stick around because Its not something I would feel comfortable with doing so doing it in the first place would make me feel like shyt then him using me would make me feel even shyttier.

 

[42 Monks]

i'd rather wait him out. if he's a hoe and a liar, his true intentions will reveal themselves fairly quickly.

Women say this all the time and it's nothing other than playing yourself. Why? Because men don't think about women the way that women (largely) think about men. Women don't have rosters arranged from least effort to most needy. Most time women present that wall or conditional to men, they really think its doing something to the guy's state of mind or status.

Yo... men don't care enough nor are we attentive enough to be accurately measured by shyt like that . True intentions come from what you're showing then and there versus everything else he's seen on the way home from work that day. You might have even ruined it all unknowingly by saying some off cuff thing that is irrelevant as fukk - but a man that isn't desperate or already locked in won't care. If you're trying to feel him out based on waiting on him to fukk up by an unknown metric, you're playing yourself.

 

[MsReal]

Lets get real, sometimes you meet a man and all you want to do is fukk. You have no interest in being their girl. You don't apologise for fukking them too quickly, and if they are good in bed you'll fukk a few times.

Other times you meet someone you want to leave an impression on, so you make them wait - make them understand what you want from them and hopefully when you do fukk they still take you seriously as a potential partner.

Sometimes it works out, sometimes it doesn't. But it's not just sex that makes a girl a good partner. How she carries herself, what she is doing with her life will make sex too quickly a make or break.

 

[Cat piss martini]

I think a woman should just do what she's comfortable with, if you like waiting then do thay if you don't then don't. If a guy is going to play you or if he wants something serious, how long it takes to have sex with him isn't going to change that. Your way wouldn't work for me, I would without a doubt kill myself after the first guy doesn't stick around because Its not something I would feel comfortable with doing so doing it in the first place would make me feel like shyt then him using me would make me feel even shyttier.

leave knowing this........even the most souless
lowlife (like myself) knows a quality woman when he sees her.
we always know when a woman is truly slumming
with us and for the most part will protect her potential
and future from our fukkery even if it means
hurting her to make her leave for her own good.

 

[emerald]

Women say this all the time and it's nothing other than playing yourself. Why? Because men don't think about women the way that women (largely) think about men. Women don't have rosters arranged from least effort to most needy. Most time women present that wall or conditional to men, they really think its doing something to the guy's state of mind or status.

Yo... men don't care enough nor are we attentive enough to be accurately measured by shyt like that . True intentions come from what you're showing then and there versus everything else he's seen on the way home from work that day. You might have even ruined it all unknowingly by saying some off cuff thing that is irrelevant as fukk - but a man that isn't desperate or already locked in won't care. If you're trying to feel him out based on waiting on him to fukk up by an unknown metric, you're playing yourself.

that's the point of waiting...to weed out the desperate motherfukkers. thankfully for me, in my age group, i don't have to worry about that all the time. we'll speak on the issue once, and when I reject, we'll move forward.

 

[lotteryplaya]

yes

 

[Barnett114]

So instead of getting to know a guy before sex we should immediately have sex with him then get to know him?

Yes

 

[SeveroDrgnfli]

Any girl who throws it at me within hours of meeting I declare a ho. Because she doesn't even know my full name. She has no idea what kind person I am or what my intentions are. She just wants to fukk me. That's a ho. I find it repulsive and it's difficult to associate with people like that because they're immorality leaks into other parts of their life. My prudence is my defining characteristic. I pay for dinner, I open doors, and I'm driving period. In liberal ass California it's not cool at all, which is funny because loose people tend to be more judgmental than conservative people. I try my best not to judge. But a ho is a health risk and a liability to me. fukk all them hoes they need to respect themselves.

 

[AB Ziggy]

Stick to the sports section OP.

 

[Max Power]

More from this op

 

[Indiglow Meta (R$G)]

I usually don't respect women who "made me wait"...
1.I'm not ugly and they know it.
2.Sex is not a treat or bargaining chip.
3.We're adults.

Every relationship I've been in I hit shorty first time we chilled.

 

[Indiglow Meta (R$G)]

p*ssy is not a bargaining chip.
p*ssy is not valuable unless you're selling it.
No man of worth will play your games.

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

Scenario 1 : It depends on how it happened, I slept with a girl on the first date once but we built chemistry throughout the whole night. Date ended us with us kicking outside, ended up with us making out in the car, we wanted each other so bad we ended up at my place. We had spoken for two weeks before that COOL

Scenario 2 : I am leaving the bathroom of a lounge, pass by her, talked to her for a bit, got the number, walked outside, saw her, we talked about her tattoos. Find out she got a tattoo that says "where's Aldo"...So I am bullshytting I asked her if I can find out where's Waldo, she says yes if I play my cards right, my dikk was hard so she starts feeling it. She tells me to hit her up monday or wednesday, she said I could come over or she could come over since we both we live alone. BAD I ended up passing on her because it was TOO EASY. Who else was she easy for? What about STDS etc? Yes, I was horny but if a woman lets me fukk too quick like that, I become paranoid, it shows recklessness since does not know shyt about me.

It shows recklessness on your part too. Maybe you should also be asking yourself why you would do such a thing.


Men who think like this kill me. Like you all aren't engaging in the same irresponsible activity you're judging the woman for.

 

[mr.africa]

I respect a woman that moves like a woman.
truth is women will dead alot of games
after getting sex out of the way.....
alot of cats will wait it out and bullshyt
after a woman gives in.
I say if a woman wanna fukk.......fukk.
once sex is out of the way youre gonna see
the real dude.

 

[#1 pick]

Listen, I'm pretty old fashioned and I've slut shamed a lot of people in my life time but I can't help but wonder about what guys think about this: could you respect a girl who gave it up way too soon? Can a relationship that is primarily based on sex actually last?


I know some chick who was talking to some dude online for less than two months and then he flew to her city and they hooked up on that very night and he went home the next day. She's since visited him but again, only for one weekend. They've only been together for less than a month, have only met 2 times and they've already booked weekend hotel sex vacations.



The hell? Is this a real relationship or is he simply using her for sex? I feel like her feelings are about to get hurt in the next few months.

Most women, well all of the women I had sex with gave it up too soon. So no. I wouldn't lose respect.