Can you respect a girl who gave it up too soon?

[Terrance Curtis Beasley]

if u easy imma use u for sex

if u make me wait but I know that u was a thot before meeting me im not wastin my time with u

if u never been a thot then I respect u

 

[Neuromancer]

Lets get real, sometimes you meet a man and all you want to do is fukk. You have no interest in being their girl. You don't apologise for fukking them too quickly, and if they are good in bed you'll fukk a few times.

Other times you meet someone you want to leave an impression on, so you make them wait - make them understand what you want from them and hopefully when you do fukk they still take you seriously as a potential partner.

Sometimes it works out, sometimes it doesn't. But it's not just sex that makes a girl a good partner. How she carries herself, what she is doing with her life will make sex too quickly a make or break.

Should this not be decided by the man in question? How you gonna decide what is a good partner if you aren't dating women....unless you are.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Yes...

Me and my homegirl smashed on the first night And we still cool.

That whole "waiting" shyt is retarded. If she wants to wait then she can. There are more important reasons to not respect a woman than her having sex the first night...

Like dirty fingernails

That's just me though. And most women really want to

 

[The ADD]

I can't disrespect her for giving me what I was aiming for

 

[Neuromancer]

p*ssy is not a bargaining chip.
p*ssy is not valuable unless you're selling it.
No man of worth will play your games.

Exactly. If a woman is using p*ssy as a bargaining chip she's probably controlling and devious and not a mate I want. If you have attributes worth getting to know I will stick with you regardless, because I deemed it was worth it. Not cause of a carrot on a stick.

 

[Mirin4rmfar]

It shows recklessness on your part too. Maybe you should also be asking yourself why you would do such a thing.


Men who think like this kill me. Like you all aren't engaging in the same irresponsible activity you're judging the woman for.

Lol, I didn't smash.....once I got home, I never hit her up because of that.

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

Lol, I didn't smash.....once I got home, I never hit her up because of that.

Good and I hope any guy in here judging a woman for being reckless isn't being reckless himself.

 

[Arithmetic]

No matter what Chelsea says, da answer is No.

 

[@OffHalsted]

Yes because I might've done sum honorable shyt within that 1st week that deserves sum puss

 

[CrimsonTider]

Waiting is superficial as fukk

We're adults Im feeling you and you feeling me what are we waiting on?

Women are judged on being "easy" by word of mouth. Which is stupid but it's the way it is

 

[Ms. Elaine]

More from this op

Yet somehow you find yourself in every single one of my threads.




You're playing yourself.

 

[AmenhotepIV]

Did she friendzone you or is this ya sister

Please respond

 

[KinksandCoils]

You nikkas recycle the same shyt on this board over and over again. Guess what? Women like sex too! If you are willing to sleep with someone right away what makes u any better than her? You still have the same risk of stds that she does and what makes it worse is that men tend to be asymptomatic. Just because a woman slept with u right away doesn't mean she does it to every guy. Maybe she actually liked u as much as you wanted her too. nikkas so busy being hoes and hypocrites lol.

 

[Sniper]

Listen, I'm pretty old fashioned and I've slut shamed a lot of people in my life time but I can't help but wonder about what guys think about this: could you respect a girl who gave it up way too soon? Can a relationship that is primarily based on sex actually last?


I know some chick who was talking to some dude online for less than two months and then he flew to her city and they hooked up on that very night and he went home the next day. She's since visited him but again, only for one weekend. They've only been together for less than a month, have only met 2 times and they've already booked weekend hotel sex vacations.



The hell? Is this a real relationship or is he simply using her for sex? I feel like her feelings are about to get hurt in the next few months.

If you're talking for two months back and fourth, what are you supposed to do when you physically meet face to face?

Talk more?

 

[Ms. Elaine]

If you're talking for two months back and fourth, what are you supposed to do when you physically meet face to face?

Talk more?

Go out on a date, kiss, hold hands and talk to some more...

And from what I gather, he was hollering at other options during that time.