You played yourself.Go out on a date, kiss, hold hands and talk to some more...
And from what I gather, he was hollering at other options during that time.
Can you respect a girl who gave it up too soon?
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Ms. Elaine
Spoiled Brat
Go out on a date, kiss, hold hands and talk to some more...
And from what I gather, he was hollering at other options during that time.
And she was probably hollering at other dudes, she's a grown women with interests of her own.
They probably went out to eat and were sexually attracted to eachother which led to sex.
I woudn't use that as an indicator...many on here are confessing they want to be tricked. MANY, MANY, MANY women hold out on a guy and he thinks he has a good girl meanwhile she is bumping uglies with somebody else while holding out on him. Doesn't matter if she holds out for so long that just means she's held out on YOU. It's naive to think just because she didn't give you any for 3 months that she's good. What's 3 months(or 3 years)? I think there are other factors involved and not that 3 month game. That's NOT gonna make me think she's chaste or not. It just tells me she's worried about LOOKING hoeish.
If people wanna hold out let them hold out because they don't want the chemical sex drug to get in the way of their judgement. Don't hold out just for the image(that would be willfully ignorant).
If people wanna hold out let them hold out because they don't want the chemical sex drug to get in the way of their judgement. Don't hold out just for the image(that would be willfully ignorant).
most women I fukked gave it up on the first meeting. I can't say I respected them because I didn't even know their names in many cases or care to know. Only woman I respected was this married chic because we kept it 100 where she said she just wanted to fukk and she needed up having the best p*ssy I ever had and we fukked for more than 5 yrs. So to answer your question I would say no I would respect a chic who gave it up quick
all that depends on where you are in your life and what you trying to do as far as relationships
i personally think people put too much emphasis on sex and make a big deal out of it
if your grown and mature enough to have sex with whom ever you choose and know thats all it is then so be it man or female
i wouldn't suggest that to a person that is actually looking for a relationship though
I've slept with plenty of females on the first night or within the first week some i kept dealing with some i didn't i just wasn't ready for a relationship but that doesn't mean i have to just sit around and wait to have sex
i personally think people put too much emphasis on sex and make a big deal out of it
if your grown and mature enough to have sex with whom ever you choose and know thats all it is then so be it man or female
i wouldn't suggest that to a person that is actually looking for a relationship though
I've slept with plenty of females on the first night or within the first week some i kept dealing with some i didn't i just wasn't ready for a relationship but that doesn't mean i have to just sit around and wait to have sex
Ms. Elaine
Spoiled Brat
If all of your social interactions lead to sex, that's problem.
Their third "date" was at a hotel.
It will be interesting to see if she accuses him of using her for sex once it's over.
DreadBrown
Feed the children
No such thing as too soon if its for the right reasons.
Dont fight the feeling ladies
Dont fight the feeling ladies
If all of your social interactions lead to sex, that's problem.
Their third "date" was at a hotel.
It will be interesting to see if she accuses him of using her for sex once it's over.
If one only gets to see a person once every two months, having sex each time you see them shouldn't be an issue.
Ms. Elaine
Spoiled Brat
Nah, it's every 2-3 weeks. And doesn't look like they make an effort to even go out when they're together.
I wouldn't know about all of this shyt if they didn't advertise it on IG.
what them hoes like in cali breh, a 6'3 breh is moving out there in 3 months....
QueenSheba
All Star
It depends on the guy.Listen, I'm pretty old fashioned and I've slut shamed a lot of people in my life time but I can't help but wonder about what guys think about this: could you respect a girl who gave it up way too soon? Can a relationship that is primarily based on sex actually last?
I know some chick who was talking to some dude online for less than two months and then he flew to her city and they hooked up on that very night and he went home the next day.
The hell? Is this a real relationship or is he simply using her for sex?
SOme of us have been braiwashed into thinking that dating is only supposed to work one way and that women who do ABC are good women and those who do XYZ arent. So if you are predisposed to judge a woman just because she acted on her sexual urges thats that's you
Personally, I have had lasting relationships with women i had sex with the very night i met them. Thats just me. Im always down to fukk so why should i judge? I've had sex the same day or within 2 days of meeting
- The Costa Rican chick i was dating in COsta Rica
- This other Tica who lives in NY
- This black american chick from TX who i met in Atlanta.
- A few others
A problem for who?If all of your social interactions lead to sex, that's problem.
Their third "date" was at a hotel.
It will be interesting to see if she accuses him of using her for sex once it's over.
SeveroDrgnfli
Ain't nobody tryin to get indicted.
You're going to crush it. You're 6'3. You win. California IMO has the most beautiful cool girls in the US. I'm a Bay Area city kid. I've traveled all over cali though. You need to learn what polyamourous and pan sexual mean. Lots of girls are into that. Androgynous is in right now. Lots of hippie ass third generation feminists out here. Avoid their triggers and smoke loud. You're in. Girls are DTF here. Coke, weed, lean, and syrup are heavy out here now. Be careful mixing man.