Cant believe people don't abort their kid when they know it will be special needs

[Neil Tyson]

I would not abort a child if I knew in advance they would have a disability.

As a dad and a husband it is a joy and honor to do what I can for my family. Unconditional love knows no bounds. I'd rather elevate my kids then worry about my own selfishness.

The lack of love these days is astounding.

You can't wait another 9 months though?

 

[ben anderson]

Nah I see that a lot where I work.

I'd do the same thing to be honest. That would be depressing

indeed

I can't speak for those people but I know for damn sure I would.

smart man

It shouldn't be illegal.

But I probably would abort. The care that they need can be super expensive, very time-consuming and stressful.
It doesn't make you a bad person to abort that kind of situation.

The pain the parents endure with that kind of situation...as well as the burden and pain the child themselves carry....it's brutal.

it should be illegal.

Some people try for years and cant have kids, so that may be a reason why they keep it.

But tbh Idk if I can.

you would be a fool to do so.

It's all selfishness.

If I were born a quadriplegic, retarded or heavily compromised in any way and the docs knew that I would lead a hard life before it was too late to abort - I would want to shoot my parents in the face.

This life is hard enough being Black on top of it having special needs is a death sentence. Automatically you getting no p*ssy compared to even the average dude who gets p*ssy once a year - So you'll probably get p*ssy once every 10 years - That alone in and of itself is horrendous way to live. This is putting aside all the other 1,001 challenges you will have to face in life socially and professionally etc.

A lot of White people be on that mess. Chinese people will abort if the kid is special needs if they know because Chinese healthcare will kill the child anyways before it reaches adulthood.

10/10 response, exactly what i was thinking. didn't want to write it all out tho.

that's a parent's love....I think

ummm no, it's called selfishness.

I'd take my baby to the hit man if it was going to be born slow or sickly. Put the thing out of it's misery. Instead of having it to struggle through life and get picked on.

a rational woman? oh nvm lmao thought you were lady shythole.

Love is not wanting your child to suffer a hard life.

yup

Chinese will abort most likely if it's a girl, fukk if it's healthy or not.

lol yeah im hip, the Chinese are Hard on girl babies

I'm sure that special needs people have pleasures in life
they're just different than normal

na.

 

[Drake is God]

When I would here people say this when I was younger I would be like " abort a kid because they have special needs??" but now that I have a brother with special needs, I kind of understand. Life is going to be really hard for him and my mom and his dad aren't going to be alive his entire life. I feel so bad for him.

Why did your parents have him if they knew he was going to be a liability?

 

[Reginald Noble]

I would not abort a child if I knew in advance they would have a disability.

As a dad and a husband it is a joy and honor to do what I can for my family. Unconditional love knows no bounds. I'd rather elevate my kids then worry about my own selfishness.

The lack of love these days is astounding.

This is what most humans don't understand. It ain't about YOU or how YOU feel nikka

It's about the child. I guarantee you 90% of the children on this planet with special needs feel guilty to be even alive or continue to wonder why they were even born.

Being around able-bodied and minded folk and wondering why you are inferior and why you exist. Could you even fathom leading such an existence?

Unless you are Pablo Escobar with no chance of going to jail or getting shot - How could you possibly guarantee a comfortable life and existence for your special needs child.

Seriously ALL parents who bring these babies to term are SELF ABSORBED a$$holeS that shouldn't have been born themselves.

You will never have any idea what it's like to be born that way. A car accident won't change the fact you experienced life "normally" before.

 

[Thsnnor]

You can't wait another 9 months though?

Th memory won't dissappear after 9 months. Another 9 months would be two children.

 

[ben anderson]

I would not abort a child if I knew in advance they would have a disability.

As a dad and a husband it is a joy and honor to do what I can for my family. Unconditional love knows no bounds. I'd rather elevate my kids then worry about my own selfishness.

The lack of love these days is astounding.

please tell me you're joking? you just fukking said how it is a joy and honor to take care of your family. that means you do it because it makes YOU feel a certain way. that is the fukking epitome of selfishness lmao you fukking kidding? You would rather your kid grow up disabled because it gives you a sense of honor and pride? please quit while your ahead.

When I would here people say this when I was younger I would be like " abort a kid because they have special needs??" but now that I have a brother with special needs, I kind of understand. Life is going to be really hard for him and my mom and his dad aren't going to be alive his entire life. I feel so bad for him.

yup, sucks he will probably never experience the best feeling in life. being inside/connected to another woman smh.

 

[Maddmike]

I have a special needs cousin and I agree. I personally don't have the patience for it tbh.

 

[ben anderson]

This is what most humans don't understand. It ain't about YOU or how YOU feel nikka

It's about the child. I guarantee you 90% of the children on this planet with special needs feel guilty to be even alive or continue to wonder why they were even born.

Being around able-bodied and minded folk and wondering why you are inferior and why you exist. Could you even fathom leading such an existence?

Unless you are Pablo Escobar with no chance of going to jail or getting shot - How could you possibly guarantee a comfortable life and existence for your special needs child.

Seriously ALL parents who bring these babies to term are SELF ABSORBED a$$holeS that shouldn't have been born themselves.

You will never have any idea what it's like to be born that way. A car accident won't change the fact you experienced life "normally" before.

lmao stupid ass nikka thinks he isn't selfish because being a man and taking care of his kids. makes HIM feel good. i swear i hear the darndest things on the coli.

 

[Ashley Banks]

Why did your parents have him if they knew he was going to be a liability?

my mom is prolife.

 

[Thsnnor]

This is what most humans don't understand. It ain't about YOU or how YOU feel nikka

It's about the child. I guarantee you 90% of the children on this planet with special needs feel guilty to be even alive or continue to wonder why they were even born.

Being around able-bodied and minded folk and wondering why you are inferior and why you exist. Could you even fathom leading such an existence?

Unless you are Pablo Escobar with no chance of going to jail or getting shot - How could you possibly guarantee a comfortable life and existence for your special needs child.

Seriously ALL parents who bring these babies to term are SELF ABSORBED a$$holeS that shouldn't have been born themselves.

Hav you ever worked with special needs children? I have. I rather see a smile on my of those kids faces then listen someone with no experience with them.

 

[ben anderson]

my mom is prolife.

thottionna!

 

[Thsnnor]

please tell me you're joking? you just fukking said how it is a joy and honor to take care of your family. that means you do it because it makes YOU feel a certain way. that is the fukking epitome of selfishness lmao you fukking kidding? You would rather your kid grow up disabled because it gives you a sense of honor and pride? please quit while your ahead.

yup, sucks he will probably never experience the best feeling in life. being inside/connected to another woman smh.

Not pride. Have you ever fought for someone who can't fight for themselves? Putting someone ahead of yourself isn't pride it's humility.

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

I don't have the compassionate care capacity for a special needs kid.

 

[Reginald Noble]

I have a special needs cousin and I agree. I personally don't have the patience for it tbh.

All these dumb parents need to realize this. Everyday people have problems just communicating and being respectful to other able-bodied and minded individuals in society.

Do you think nikkas will care or have mercy upon your son because he is autistic? Or care that your daughter is 30 and still has the mentality of a 10 year old?

You think they won't shoot him and take his sneakers or rape your daughter and leave her for dead?

fukk outta here you selfish non-sensical emotional illogical ass mother fukkers.

Take that Hope and Change bullshyt back to the Obamacare camp with that $100k medical bill you gonna have taking care of that child.

 

[Ashley Banks]

thottionna!

she's been married most of her life.