Can't have a long term relationship without Simpin?

[Sharp]

I was having a convo with this lady and she told me that if a man doesn't do every and anything to make his woman happy then he won't have a long term relationship.

She also said that as men we need to accept the fact that women like to be spoiled, get very emotional, and that you will always have arguments, but that it's worth dealing with if you want a long term relationship.

Did I mention that she said a relationship without drama and stress isn't a real relationship and that we should expect it and get used to it. If u don't by default u will continuously be involved in short term relationships by default with no substance.

I feel like I'm in the matrix. I know this cant be true. bytches be trying to do mind jobs on dudes. I wonder how many dudes just deal with this, especially those in long term relationships?

This can't be a one sided thing. Sex in exchange for stress and all the other bullshyt?

 

[kevm3]

She's falling back on that, "I'm a woman, you need to handle me" nonsense. Only suckers are going to go for that. Wild animals and children need to be handled, not grown-ups.

 

[Amy Traphouse]

So one person's opinion applies to all of us now? Yea you need to step out of that box called the matrix son.

 

[1thouwow]

 

[Sharp]

So one person's opinion applies to all of us now? Yea you need to step out of that box called the matrix son.

Why can't u just answer the question. Smh

 

[MeachTheMonster]

I agree with the title of the thread, but not that goofy bytch you were talking to. All of that spoiled and emotional shyt may be true but she has to understand that you don't have to tolerate that shyt. Yeah as a man sometimes you should support a woman's spoiled and emotional shyt but that's SOMETIMES, most times you should be the man and a leader and tell her get over that shyt. And you shouldn't "get used" to drama and stress. It will happen but you should work through it and and try to fix it, if it can't be fixed than there is no point in being with that person.

 

[CrimsonTider]

Why can't u just answer the question. Smh

she did answer the question

 

[Amy Traphouse]

Why can't u just answer the question. Smh

What would you like for me to say? That's her opinion and how she feels about relationships. I can't change it .

she did answer the question

I didn't answer it the way he wanted it answered. Dudes love to present bullshyt opinions as fact then force it on everyone else.

 

[Sharp]

She's falling back on that, "I'm a woman, you need to handle me" nonsense. Only suckers are going to go for that. Wild animals and children need to be handled, not grown-ups.

exactly. They look at me strange for not conforming, even trying to tell me that I will remain single as long as I have the ideology that I have.

But I do acknowledge that a majority of dudes have conformed. Cats put up with the mess for some consistent sex.

I can't get with a woman arguing, belittling me, disrespecting me, trying to control the relationship and telling me that it's normal. It's only acceptable because dudes don't check it.

Whatever happened to peace, harmony, teamwork, and patience? We enable this bad behavior all for some time between her legs. And it's only getting worse as simping has become the norm

 

[Born2BKing]

So one person's opinion applies to all of us now? Yea you need to step out of that box called the matrix son.

Off topic as hell but can you pm a stuffed portobello mushroom recipe if you have one please.

 

[Sharp]

What would you like for me to say? That's her opinion and how she feels about relationships. I can't change it .



I didn't answer it the way he wanted it answered. Dudes love to present bullshyt opinions as fact then force it on everyone else.

I'm not sure why u feel an opinion is being forced on u. Please quote it, thanks in advance.

I assume you're a female, so im curious to your take on this. Everything doesn't always have to be so controversial. I'm more concerned with understanding than defending any point of view

 

[Isaiah Bradley]

It seems the term simping, like the term snitching, is grossly misused and misunderstood

A person who doesn't have control of their emotional baggage should not be in a relationship. That "well this how I be sometimes baby" argument won't keep a "quality" person interested. A quality person being someone has their mental, physical, and financials straighten out and understood

 

[GoFlipAPack]

She's falling back on that, "I'm a woman, you need to handle me" nonsense. Only suckers are going to go for that. Wild animals and children need to be handled, not grown-ups.

I wonder if said broad is single? That'll tell me what I need to know.

 

[MoneyTron]

This is a lie.

 

[killacal]

I was having a convo with this lady and she told me that if a man doesn't do every and anything to make his woman happy then he won't have a long term relationship.

She also said that as men we need to accept the fact that women like to be spoiled, get very emotional, and that you will always have arguments, but that it's worth dealing with if you want a long term relationship.

Did I mention that she said a relationship without drama and stress isn't a real relationship and that we should expect it and get used to it. If u don't by default u will continuously be involved in short term relationships by default with no substance.

I feel like I'm in the matrix. I know this cant be true. bytches be trying to do mind jobs on dudes. I wonder how many dudes just deal with this, especially those in long term relationships?

This can't be a one sided thing. Sex in exchange for stress and all the other bullshyt?

You fukked up taking relationship from an obviously scorned hood rat