Cardi B Outchea Spitting Facts

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took me about a decade of being in a marriage trying to shoulder the load that it got to be too much. My wife went back to work after our kids got big enough and its been good since. Its much easier with dual incomes right now and she always goes half with me on most things. Otherwise, its understood give and take where she might spend 2-3 hundred shopping but I pay for the family gym membership 250. NGL- my woman holds it down and is only getting better with age she bossing up.
 

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Sounds all well and good unless you understand how quick women will flip. And just how much the court system works in their favor.


Marry a woman and go half on a house? You already know who probably getting the kids and the house. Its important that you know the common law marriage rules in your state. As well as sign a bullet proof prenup if there is such a thing. With that said if shes your woman you shouldnt have her working imo. But if yall are building towards a goal and she is working? Never give her authority over the finances. In terms of shes the one paying bills,handling obligations etc. Control over the money will subconsciously put them in the leadership authority role. Even if its not her money your giving her a taste of power,and power corrupts:respect:
 

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Once a man reaches a certain income level, he not looking to share his woman with her employer. Her availability to him becomes far more important. So most of this, "What does she bring to the table" talk is nonsense. When asked that question, a woman should just say, "My looks, my loyalty, my ability to be a great home maker, and the wisdom to advise in important life decisions." Any dude asking for more than that isn't ready for a serious relationship.
 

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Once a man reaches a certain income level, he not looking to share his woman with her employer. Her availability to him becomes far more important. So most of this, "What does she bring to the table" talk is nonsense. When asked that question, a woman should just say, "My looks, my loyalty, my ability to be a great home maker, and the wisdom to advise in important life decisions." Any dude asking for more than that isn't ready for a serious relationship.
you realize that something like 90% of the population does not reach an income level where they don’t need dual incomes to comfortably raise a family in america right?

the shyt you’re talking about is out of touch with the current times and bad advice for most people
 

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Coli gonna be mad about the messenger but she's right. The 50/50 discourse is strictly internet shyt meant to poison minds. In reality if you're living in a major city with your girlfriend and you both make similar money....in many if not most cases, bills are being shared. Go ask somebody in Los Angeles if they expect one person to pay the bills, they'll laugh in your face. Maybe it's not 50/50 but some level of dual income ratio is being implemented. The entire point of dual incomes is to save money, get really good credit, and buy a house. Get a car. Pay for tutoring for your kids. Pay for college. Get into a social club.

This is also a reason why people tend to date/marry within their socioeconomic bracket. If you're both making 40k a year and are in a serious relationship...there's a lot you can do by cutting bills in half or 60/40 or whatever. You can literally change your life for the better doing that, IF you're with the right person and plan on getting married.
 
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