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you know when it's a feminist fail when even your fellow females are like 
Catching a guy checking you out UNAPPRECIATION
- Thread starter Ms.CuriousCat
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you know when it's a feminist fail when even your fellow females are like 
@Fonsworth @ModernFonzie @The5thLetter @Los Pollos Hermanos here ya go but dont say I didnt warn you
*reluctantly puts on cape*yo @Ms.CuriousCat let me holla at u
I didn't mean with this guy, I meant with guys in general. Does this mixed signal shyt work out for you or do men tend to throw you in the bushes because you make things awkward?My approach? lol that's a generous word to use. I don't have an end game, I don't really want to get married right now but if it feels like he could be the one then I wouldn't say no because of timing. I'm just letting him be him and seeing what I see, his behaviour though is
@Ineedmoney504 25
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Veteran
Ive basically given up on women (no homo)
As soon as they start acting stupid, or playing games I'm gone...
Got rejected the other night now I'm straight with relationships, feelings, anything...
Some women aren't happy if they're not being victimized.
"Oh God! An attractive guy that I like wants to fukk me."
Social darwinism works in more ways than one.
You did him a favor by moving on.
/thread
AJtheOne
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Sk3ptical
alhamdulillah
how she lookStill cant get that wig-less pic of you out my head
Sk3ptical
alhamdulillah
my eyes i look where i want
Only times guys check black women out is to see if they gonna steal any weaves and put em down their LV knock off purse at Korean beauty supply stores
Spend time watching your demon spawn so they don't murk themselves over a Facebook post.
a lot of women people are perpetually single because they...
(1) have a highly idealized vision of how human interactions are supposed to happen, yet-
(2) are not personally blessed with much in the way of social skills
that's a recipe for disaster
i am not going to tell the o.p. how she is supposed to feel
she didn't like the interaction, and she wanted to distance herself from the person- ok, that's her choice
i can only suggest she consider-
(a) was it truly a dealbreaker/incompatibility where she needed to hit the eject button??
or
(b) was it merely not what she had expected?? or somehow sub-optimal to what she imagined??
if it was (a), then okay...he needed to be in bushes
but if it was (b), consider-
you never really know anyone fully
people you've been married to for ten years can surprise you in ways that are unexpected and mildly unpleasant
before you get too judgmental about those shortcomings in human interaction
you need to do a very cold assessment of your own social skills
if they are less than stellar??
consider that everyone has to overlook a lot to accept YOU as a friend/coworker/relative/spouse/etc.
so i am not saying to drop your standards or accept the unacceptable
but sometimes it's best to be more easygoing on your expectations of others
focus on the nine things someone gets right, and less on the one thing they get wrong
especially if your ratio is only 8/2
(1) have a highly idealized vision of how human interactions are supposed to happen, yet-
(2) are not personally blessed with much in the way of social skills
that's a recipe for disaster
i am not going to tell the o.p. how she is supposed to feel
she didn't like the interaction, and she wanted to distance herself from the person- ok, that's her choice
i can only suggest she consider-
(a) was it truly a dealbreaker/incompatibility where she needed to hit the eject button??
or
(b) was it merely not what she had expected?? or somehow sub-optimal to what she imagined??
if it was (a), then okay...he needed to be in bushes
but if it was (b), consider-
you never really know anyone fully
people you've been married to for ten years can surprise you in ways that are unexpected and mildly unpleasant
before you get too judgmental about those shortcomings in human interaction
you need to do a very cold assessment of your own social skills
if they are less than stellar??
consider that everyone has to overlook a lot to accept YOU as a friend/coworker/relative/spouse/etc.
so i am not saying to drop your standards or accept the unacceptable
but sometimes it's best to be more easygoing on your expectations of others
focus on the nine things someone gets right, and less on the one thing they get wrong
especially if your ratio is only 8/2
Ms.CuriousCat
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@old_timer what an ether but okay, I will take that on board, thank you for dropping your 2 cents
It feels dirty makes you want to jump back in the shower and never step out of the house without a burka or some massive thing.
You know when guys are checking you out but when you see someone do it especially when he looks at you like "Thanks for the show"
This was a guy I was actually liking but he's gone from a maybe to an absolutely no flipping way
I'm sorry but
What
do you want men to do? This is a very dumb thread especially because you kinda liked dude
ShenJingPoQi
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@Fonsworth @ModernFonzie @The5thLetter @Los Pollos Hermanos here ya go but dont say I didnt warn you
