Catching a guy checking you out UNAPPRECIATION

[Blackking]

I need to join a female forum

I was hoping for some consolation Not all men are pigs type of affirmation


But now I know how it is

you obviously just need to stop being unrealistic.


and is that GIF YOU

No, it can't be you...Aren't you a muslimah????????????

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

Isn't looking at a girl like that confirmation that you are not interested in her as a person beyond the physical? Actions speak louder than words?

No. That means we're VERY interested in you as a woman. You're over-analyzing the situation.​

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

Are you saying because he's attracted to you he can't be interested in you as a person? Does he treat you as if that's the case?

He is really flirtatious, I thought it was annoying at first, then it grew on me so I thought it was cute and it's just a part of his personality (he's really good looking with a cool personality). I've been having an internal debate about how seriously to take him (he's always making jokes about us getting married). I was leaning towards just being not meant to be (he's Somali but his culture couldn't be more different from mine) then he goes and does this and I feel like I've been kidding myself taking anything about him seriously. Like I was just an ego boost. Such an a$$hole. I'm pissed at myself for making excuses and moving from finding his behaviour annoying to cute. No more!

 

[originalblackmanfromughh]

He is really flirtatious, I thought it was annoying at first, then it grew on me so I thought it was cute and it's just a part of his personality (he's really good looking with a cool personality). I've been having an internal debate about how seriously to take him (he's always making jokes about us getting married). I was leaning towards just being not meant to be (he's Somali but his culture couldn't be more different from mine) then he goes and does this and I feel like I've been kidding myself taking anything about him seriously. Like I was just an ego boost. Such an a$$hole. I'm pissed at myself for making excuses and moving from finding his behaviour annoying to cute. No more!

Bish you broke up with dude before the relationship started.

 

[Raava]

The last option

It wasn't even uncomfortable in an oh my way when you know you're attracted to each other it was just dismissive from one human to another. I guess it was a eureka moment that showed me what I was not ready to see, he's a womanising a$$hole and I've been making excuses.

I still don't see how him looking at you makes him all those things? This the whole story?

I have had strangers make me uncomfortable so I understand that but I can't tell all of what you said just based on them giving me the

 

[Oroko Saki]

Thought a dude started this thread. I was gonna cosign

I thought a dude started this too, but I was gonna disagree

 

[Soundwave]

You knew better than to post this

Did she? DID SHE?

This is going to turn into a harassment thread.

I've already started whistling

 

[Medicate]

"Unappreciation"?

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

He is really flirtatious, I thought it was annoying at first, then it grew on me so I thought it was cute and it's just a part of his personality (he's really good looking with a cool personality). I've been having an internal debate about how seriously to take him (he's always making jokes about us getting married). I was leaning towards just being not meant to be (he's Somali but his culture couldn't be more different from mine) then he goes and does this and I feel like I've been kidding myself taking anything about him seriously. Like I was just an ego boost. Such an a$$hole. I'm pissed at myself for making excuses and moving from finding his behaviour annoying to cute. No more!

No offense, but you're retarded. I look at my wife like that EVERY DAY. Doesn't mean I don't respect her as a person. Just means I desire her.​

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

Oh...so you looked at him other places besides his eyes??

touché

Bish you broke up with dude before the relationship started.

Why are you swearing at me though

No. That means we're VERY interested in you as a woman. You're over-analyzing the situation.​

Yeah. You're probably right. I was feeling suspicious and analysing his behaviour in general and I guess this is the straw that broke the camel's back. I got my answer before today and now I have to be grown and deal with it.

 

[iBrowse]

Bish you broke up with dude before the relationship started.

I'm saying...if anything while she's having that "internal debate"/being indecisive after she was already receptive to his flirtatious nature dude probably thought he needed to be a little more assertive. Unless we're not getting the whole story. If I find a girl attractive I'll let her know in some way

Then again I'm inclined to take this as especially since its the same thread she did a couple months ago.

 

[Pdiddy]

Horrible post. You dropped the ball.

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

Yeah. You're probably right. I was feeling suspicious and analysing his behaviour in general and I guess this is the straw that broke the camel's back. I got my answer before today and now I have to be grown and deal with it.

Deal with what? Dude likes what he sees and isn't ashamed to show it and rather than reciprocate, you get on your high-horse and try to castigate him for showing interest in you that goes beyond the 'professional'?

Man, you kids make no damn sense. Might as well start passing notes: 'If you like me, check "1".........'

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[originalblackmanfromughh]

This woman is terrified

wants evry nga to look at her through a hole in a shoebox likes shes an eclipse

 

[NegroTurbo]

Maybe it's one of those things a male will never understand.

It hurts when it's someone you thought respected you

So because he looks at you sexually he can't respect you? Didn't know the two were mutually exclusive.