Catching a guy checking you out UNAPPRECIATION

[Bunchy Carter]

@Fonsworth @ModernFonzie @The5thLetter @Los Pollos Hermanos here ya go but dont say I didnt warn you

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

No offense, but you're retarded. I look at my wife like that EVERY DAY. Doesn't mean I don't respect her as a person. Just means I desire her.​

Oh. Well, I didn't look at it like that and we're not married....

I guess the thing about him that's making me sit on the fence is whether for him it's just flirtation. He never shares anything personal about himself, I was thinking it may be my fault because I was kinda distant at the beginning so I was actually trying to figure out how to make him comfortable then he does this and it's like what's the point. He really is just using me as another girl he gets to flirt with to make himself feel better.

Am I really overreacting?

So because he looks at you sexually he can't respect you? Didn't know the two were mutually exclusive.

Of course










Okay /thread

I have some thinking to do

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

You should show-up without all the make-up and the wig and see if he looks at you the same way.​

 

[originalblackmanfromughh]

yeah youre over reacting

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

You should show-up without all the make-up and the wig and see if he looks at you the same way.​

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

Oh. Well, I didn't look at it like that and we're not married....

I guess the thing about him that's making me sit on the fence is whether for him it's just flirtation. He never shares anything personal about himself, I was thinking it may be my fault because I was kinda distant at the beginning so I was actually trying to figure out how to make him comfortable then he does this and it's like what's the point. He really is just using me as another girl he gets to flirt with to make himself feel better.

Am I really overreacting?

You are literally talking yourself out of what may be a relationship because a 'nice, attractive' guy looked at you with desire.

Think about that for a second.
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[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

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[HoloGraphic]

Self-esteem

 

[andre patton]

Oh. Well, I didn't look at it like that and we're not married....

I guess the thing about him that's making me sit on the fence is whether for him it's just flirtation. He never shares anything personal about himself, I was thinking it may be my fault because I was kinda distant at the beginning so I was actually trying to figure out how to make him comfortable then he does this and it's like what's the point. He really is just using me as another girl he gets to flirt with to make himself feel better.

Am I really overreacting?

you're complaining about the fact that a guy you like finds you sexually attractive...

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

@Dafunkdoc_Unlimited If I was speaking to other females we'd probably be knee deep in man bashing right now. Interesting to get another perspective

Self-esteem

What makes you say that?

 

[KXIVN]

@Fonsworth @ModernFonzie @The5thLetter @Los Pollos Hermanos here ya go but dont say I didnt warn you

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

@Dafunkdoc_Unlimited If I was speaking to other females we'd probably be knee deep in man bashing right now. Interesting to get another perspective

There's a reason single women are single.

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[originalblackmanfromughh]

The same reason I said it. Youre projecting your own feelings about yourself onto the breh. Scared youll get hurt or something...typical avoidance

You dont think he could like you. Sometimes you dont need blind support, you need reflection

 

[Poitier]

@Fonsworth @ModernFonzie @The5thLetter @Los Pollos Hermanos here ya go but dont say I didnt warn you

Nah breh http://www.thecoli.com/threads/ever...ngs-the-new-queen-bedwench-of-thecoli.194403/

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

you're complaining about the fact that a guy you like finds you sexually attractive...

Yo give me a break.

I am from a different cultural background

The same reason I said it. Youre projecting your own feelings about yourself onto the breh. Scared youll get hurt or something...typical avoidance

You dont think he could like you. Sometimes you dont need blind support, you need reflection

What, so every guy who's physically attracted to me automatically loves me? That's a messed up mentality.