Catching a guy checking you out UNAPPRECIATION

[Data-Hawk]

op, you know women are not allowed to not want strange men staring at us. We should be grateful to be stared at, even if it makes you uncomfortable.

You know fathers don't need to raise their kids anymore.............

 

[RealAssanova]

Somali women

Swear to god, ya'll the most socially awkward women to walk planet earth

you also ain't making sense...it ain't like he put a gun to your head and made you do something you are against

if you don't like him, then don't bother with him. Simple. But to lose all interest in him because he is a man? Every man got sexual desires. Its in our DNA. You think we gonna repress ourselves just because 1 women feels some type of way? or society does?Fukk no. When we see a woman we want, we go and get her...and best believe sleeping with her is one of the main things we'd want to do.

 

[BrehWyatt]

I get that you don't want to feel objectified and all that good stuff, and there is a chance that he might just be trying to smash, but ...

You feel used/disrespected and the dude hasn't even smashed and dashed on you -- actions that would justify the so-called "ego boost" you feel that you are for him -- just because he looked at you. He looked at you, and clearly liked what he saw. From what I have seen in this thread, there has been little indication that he is flirty with anyone besides you and from what I have read, I'm inferring that he has a tendency to get bold around you, which means he's probably comfortable in your presence or generally cocky/assertive. In your OP, you said before he looked at you, he was a maybe on the presumed "I'd date/fukk this cat" scale. Outside of coming right out and saying, "I want you" I am not sure what other signal of interest he could have tossed your way.

Answer me this, if you don't mind. You mentioned something about being from a different cultural background. You care to elaborate on that? It might help get to the bottom of why you're offended by someone you find nice/attractive looking at you with desire.

 

[karim]

Still cant get that wig-less pic of you out my head

 

[scarlxrd]

@Fonsworth @ModernFonzie @The5thLetter @Los Pollos Hermanos here ya go but dont say I didnt warn you

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

@RealAssanova you're telling me as a Somali man, you don't see the ceeb in the situation?


@BrehWyatt Somali, Muslim and this guy I am talking about is the same. Despite @RealAssanova chatting rubbish, it's not normal behaviour. Okay I don't know exactly what "normal" is since I don't date but he should have known better. It feels extra disrespectful coming from someone like him.

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

He can be physically attracted to me before he says hello even, I am not dictating his feelings. But to look at me "with desire" is inappropriate. At least soften the blow by looking sheepish or guilty or something, makes it so disrespectful, like he's decided he's definitely going to play me and I'm so falling for it.

When does it become appropriate? After we've made it official and are getting married. Then be smug about it until then you're just an a$$hole with an ego problem.

How long have you been in this country?​

 

[BrehWyatt]

@Ms.CuriousCat I don't know much about that culture in regards to how men and women are supposed to interact, but yeah, in Western civilization, what that dude gave you was pretty much a green light, if you're interested, that is.

 

[Hood Critic]

@Fonsworth @ModernFonzie @The5thLetter @Los Pollos Hermanos here ya go but dont say I didnt warn you

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

How long have you been in this country?​

For a very long time, but does that mean I have to let go of my culture?

And that idiot was born here but that doesn't change anything either.

 

[wingzboy]

Normally I leave after the first page when I enter stupid threads, but the sheer stupidity of this thread really drew me in, and I couldn't help but be curious as to how someone would attempt to rationalize such levels of stupidity. Having reached the last page, I see that more stupidity is being used to try to make sense of the original stupidity.

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

For a very long time, but does that mean I have to let go of my culture?

No, you need to explain your culture to him. Sounds like a date.​

And that idiot was born here but that doesn't change anything either.

He's an idiot because he finds you attractive when you're wearing your wig?

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[Medulla Oblongata]

@Fonsworth @ModernFonzie @The5thLetter @Los Pollos Hermanos here ya go but dont say I didnt warn you

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

No, you need to explain your culture to him. Sounds like a date.​

He's an idiot because he finds you attractive when you're wearing your wig?

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You have such a black and white view of things it's interesting.

And no I don't wear wigs.

Normally I leave after the first page when I enter stupid threads, but the sheer stupidity of this thread really drew me in, and I couldn't help but be curious as to how someone would attempt to rationalize such levels of stupidity. Having reached the last page, I see that more stupidity is being used to try to make sense of the original stupidity.

Not a single redeeming post

 

[HoloGraphic]

@Dafunkdoc_Unlimited If I was speaking to other females we'd probably be knee deep in man bashing right now. Interesting to get another perspective




What makes you say that?

Cause your not amused by the attention your getting. It's a serious complaint instead of you and

Stunt harder brehette