I like confident, big headed women though.
Cats really need to stop inflating these chicks heads like this...
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:rocky:Hell you mean "you dudes". I dont care who gets gas, i dont think i even mentioned the point of the op. However, i understand the thought behind "no simping" cause if clowns are lining u by the dozens to give compliments, the expectations of a man by a woman with a lot of dms may be....lofty. Like the single mother of 4 putting out that to get with her, you gotta help fund her lifestyle. Thats absolutely fine she asks for that, but she mentioned elsewhere that men arent really sticking around.
Women SHOULD have high standards. Ive said it time and time again, so these bum ass dudes dont get a chance to skeet and retreat and the dating pool becomes worse off as a result. However, whats going on in the inboxes are dudes saying things in the hopes they get to hit, not necessarily to date. Brehettes on here have said it before in response to the age old complaint men have: reasonably good looking women can get dikk whenever they want. Men dont have the luxury of being able to get p*ssy within his preferred timeframe.
The women's retort: sex isnt everything. We want relationships, too.
Fine. But here is the rub: just because 100 men are in the inbox wooing and flexing, that doesnt mean you have 100 men you would want to date, or on the other end, would want to date you. Many are just in there hoping their lazy game allows them to fukk. See the problem? If she is looking to settle down, she should not confuse inbox simps with potential suitors. Imagine her turning down a good dude she likes because she is holding out for one of those inbox ballers that keeps hitting her up, when all he wants is to smush and push. Those dudes are not sincere, and giving chicks gas is opposite and nearly equal to dudes telling good looking chicks they are ugly. Her expectations and self esteem are tied to inbox casanovas, and that doesnt translate well in real life. You cant pretend not to see that this is the chief complaint.
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That's a major leap bro. I don't think these girls are expecting to be married by any of the complimenters. The men in here seem to have a problem with women becoming out of their reach due to being propped up by other men. Instead of rising to the occasion, as any man should, they want women to be low hanging fruit.
It's laziness.
And I hate terms like simp (providing) and caping (protecting) It's like everything that a man does traditionally for a woman is seen as a bad thing among nikkas. When did being a man become so wrong to the average brotha?
That's a major leap bro. I don't think these girls are expecting to be married by any of the complimenters. The men in here seem to have a problem with women becoming out of their reach due to being propped up by other men. Instead of rising to the occasion, as any man should, they want women to be low hanging fruit.
It's laziness.
And I hate terms like simp (providing) and caping (protecting) It's like everything that a man does traditionally for a woman is seen as a bad thing among nikkas. When did being a man become so wrong to the average brotha?
Prince Mongo
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Showering a female in unnecessary, corny compliments that she isn't going to appreciate isn't being a man, that's being a lame. Its a waste of time and energy for a nikka to sit up a type a bunch of try-hard shyt for a girl that ain't paying him any attention
She is pretty but you Kats know men and women on the internet stay thirsty.
LadySimone
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If a man likes to shower may he find a woman who likes to be showered. Why does this bother you?
VFib
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I doubt that these IG models don't know that these guys just want to fukk. That's the point of some of the pics that they post. To get attention, likes, compliments, men willing to trick on them, etc. They have booking info posted because they are looking for a come up and money, not because they are looking for a good man to settle down with. Come up and money. Period.
In addition, a woman who is looking to settle down with a good man is not going to go through her Twitter and IG DMs to find him.
Comparing these IG models to 'regular' women is useless to me.
It's funny, I was just in the thread about the woman who walked around dressed in tight clothes, then dressed as a Muslim. SOME men will get mad at a woman who DOESN'T like random compliments ("She should be happy a man is looking at her"), but then get mad at women who gladly take compliments (these IG models).
Rising to the occasion is not an issue, what is the issue is false equivalence. A buncha brehs buying gifts and saying sweet nothings in an inbox may just be enough to push the ego of a regular chick into another plane of existence. Thats fine and dandy *unless* by comparison, similarly suited men arent seen as good enough do to the grass being greener, based on the simp-rate. For instance, if today i had 20 women give me their numbers, and i get to make my way through them for the next couple months, why would I entertain, much less respect, a girl who is less forthcoming but shows interest in me? To add on, im nearing 30 and i aint making shyt for cash, have no car(yet) , and am focusing on getting some ducks in a row so i can move out next year. My situation isnt exactly that of a stable man. But...what if the women still came, giving me the drawls? If i can get tons of play now being mediocre, why would i strive for better? Like a basic chick working at the foodcourt, stunting on instagram after a shopping spree, but little did we know that she ran up her cards to do it for likes. Dudes promise to trick on her, and thats what she expects as she is a "bad bytch".
Again, compare this to the nerdy, average brotha making a lil more money and then expecting a model-type chick and considering anything beneath that unworthy. Self esteem and ego are related, but they work independently of each other still.
Also, "traditions" cant be applied in the social media age. Where a woman of modest attractiveness may have praise heaped upon her a few times a week, now she can get it dozens of times a day by dudes who just want to fukk. I keep saying this, but this is the common element. Giving chicks gas can fukk her expectations up, not that she cant get a good man, but also a rich one, who pops bottles for her and her girls, and puts her into a high tax bracket by proxy. Likes and simp comments dont equate to "dong better for yourself". I dont personally care for low hanging fruit, and thats not the complaint, its about Jenny from the block clowning Jerome while waiting for something "better", when that something better may also treat Jenny like she did Jerome.
If only most chicks looked that good
Latinas all day.
Oceanicpuppy
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She's cute, i don't understand the op 
Are you angry becuase no one told you "you are beautiful" before?
come here and give us a hug. #TeamUgly understands
Are you angry becuase no one told you "you are beautiful" before?
come here and give us a hug. #TeamUgly understandsI dont think the woman in the op is in instagram model. Its a regular woman. Again, i personally dont care that guys are on their showering her with compliments, but i see where the brehs complaints are coming from. You cant speak for all women, as many seem to get more self esteem from the numbers of likes and comments online than what a dude she met in the line at the grocery store might say.
"He is nice, but i can do better." Fine assessment, but if she bases it off what dude who want to fukk on instagram say, she may be the type to curve one minute, then complain about not finding a man the next.
No, not every man is owed attention, but you cant expect Beyonce treatment is you look like Brianna from whole foods.
I dont understand how this is at all an argument, when im sure you guys were in the "nice guys/a$$holes" thread agreeing that the entitlement of some pretty underwhelming dudes was astounding. This is analogous to that exact same scenario.
Action Mike
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this is non of my concernVFib
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