caught my gf bruuuh ..... need some ideas here

[SheWantTheD]

This is why i dnt react :
they probably doing to highscool game , callin each other babe and sayin luv u on the phone when they meet at school
they dnt do anything at school cuz my sister is in the same school
anytime she goes to party she goes to my sister , i do dat to make sure that ther is no bullshyt goin

maybe im overreactin but i gotta keep my eyes on these 2

Nah breh, STOP THAT shyt RIGHT NOW! Another dude is calling her babe and saying he loves her.

Stop trying to rationalize her creeping NIGGUH! Even if nothing is going on that shyt is straight disrespectful.

Man.. get the SIMPNESS THE fukk OUTTA YOU BREH.

 

[SheWantTheD]

Get revenge!Don't act like a bytch crying about what you saw on the phone because in most cases it's not going to change the situation as she'll probably outright lie, deflect by getting mad to make herself look like the victim, admit that she's been more than platonic "friends" with the guy or simply just break up with you.

So keep your composure, pretend like nothing happened & fukk her one last time (maybe twice).


Wait a week or two & then calmly explain with no regret that you're on a new path, you've met someone new & you are breaking up with her.


You young cats have to learn how to use social engineering techniques on women in certain scenarios to gain the upper hand in situations like these so you don't look like a weak loser & get completely played.

nikka already got played and he won't be able to do it since he still has strong SIMPNESS within him. He's already trying to rationalize those messages and reject his gut feeling/instincts telling him something's off. He'll want closure and will always think back "what if I was wrong?".

He should confront her but be calm about it, dump her ass and never look back. If he really wants the upper hand, then make sure word gets out that she's a lying, cheating hoe.

 

[SheWantTheD]

Put this on next time you're with her and see what she does

 

[SheWantTheD]

There this thing that adults in relationships do and it is called communication. Explain to her that you think her friendship is inappropriate and that you feel it is hindering from your two from moving forward. If she has a problem then move on. Simple as that.

Should have done that before, but it's too late.

It don't matter though, if she was gon cheat she was gon cheat.

 

[O.G.B]

nikka already got played and he won't be able to do it since he still has strong SIMPNESS within him. He's already trying to rationalize those messages and reject his gut feeling/instincts telling him something's off. He'll want closure and will always think back "what if I was wrong?"

Totally, 100% agree with this!

He should confront her but be calm about it, dump her ass and never look back. If he really wants the upper hand, then make sure word gets out that she's a lying, cheating hoe.

Disagree here. Sometimes you have to deal with women from a position of strength without showing your hand plus confronting her in most cases won't better his situation (short term or long). Furthermore, shaming tactics rarely work with women in circumstances like this, nor will it do little to anything at all to affect her reputation among her circle of friend or acquaintances, not to mention it makes the man look like a weak & vulnerable whiner who's just lashing out simply because he got gamed.

Now ask yourself, as a man, would you rather people know that you cut off a relationship because you found another women (whether true or false) or that you broke up with a girlfriend (or she broke up with you) because she was having an affair with another guy?

 

[Giselle]

Think i gotta do dat ,look for bettter evidence
they might just say it on text 4 fun
But i'll keep an eye on them
But if i found better evidence, it gon get ugly for her

And i will move on

This is why i dnt react :
they probably doing to highscool game , callin each other babe and sayin luv u on the phone when they meet at school
they dnt do anything at school cuz my sister is in the same school
anytime she goes to party she goes to my sister , i do dat to make sure that ther is no bullshyt goin

maybe im overreactin but i gotta keep my eyes on these 2

How old are you sir? You sound like you just entered hs. Leave that girl alone.

I was in a similar situation. Leave her in silence. Stop calling, and do not return her calls.
You can explain why you left her in a few months but not now.

Did she even care months later? What happened after you explained?

 

[Phitz]

How old are you sir? You sound like you just entered hs. Leave that girl alone.



Did she even care months later? What happened after you explained?

she tried to come back about 8 months later, all my exes still like me

 

[ORDER_66]

So OP any fukking update?????

 

[Kane1]

After reading thru this topic I've determined that OP is a full blown SIMP



You stay with your girl man....the world needs SIMPs like you

 

[blackzeus]

Hey hey
Need y all answer before i act crazyyyy
Dating a chick its been 3 months but i always noticed that she was too friendly with a guy

That should have instantly relegated her to jumpoff status, you lost for investing too much emotionally. Just keep hitting it and let her end it whenever she wants and move on to some new strange

 

[Originalgangsta317]

You lost OP

 

[DrX]

lol that aint yo girl nikka.....

 

[DrX]

thats community p*ssy, she belong to the game

 

[benjamin]

nikka, I'll fukk yo bytch, then tell you WHAT!!
..

Spoiler

simp

 

[street heat]

the best thing to do in this situation is just cut her off completely and don't tell her why. it will fukk with her mind forever.