Basically. If you're broke and your wife decides to pull the eject cord on your marriage....you might as well just kill youself cuz you'll have no money. It's a decent deal if you're a crafty bytch.
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Basically. If you're broke and your wife decides to pull the eject cord on your marriage....you might as well just kill youself cuz you'll have no money. It's a decent deal if you're a crafty bytch.
only on the coli is making 120K household struggling
we weren't struggling, but living in pricier cities, eating out, buying whatever we wanted, driving nice cars, traveling, student loans.... it adds up.
Why not?
Man, I'm kinda angered here.this is the coli
http://www.thecoli.com/threads/whats-the-normal-age-that-people-hit-that-100k-year-mark.33964/
failure if you dont make 100k
Dudes talking about you should be clearing 100k at 25 and shyt
120k in 99% of america as a household your doing better than ok.
only like 15% of households in america make over 100k
Honestly he's just content with mediocrity, and she's not, but she knew this going in. They would be perfect for other people.
Okay and she was gonna say, you know what hun, "i'm terrible at managing money, don't trust me with a single cent. GTFOH!!
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yeah i know 120k is great for two people. i was talking about the person that said that wasn't a lot of money for you guys.
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coli lames and theirMan, I'm kinda angered here.
Dudes talking about you should be clearing 100k at 25 and shyt
calm yourself. He just decided that she would handle the bills, he didn't check on anything. That's how it was done at his house growing up. He didn't back check anything. she told him she was going to school he just believed it even with signs she wasn't. No one flat out says I am bad with money. But if you have a conversation about money and what you expect it comes out. When you talk about what you can afford and the other person always wants something beyond what you can afford that's a red flag.Edit; @BillCosbyAteMyHomework
Because you can't plan life. You set up an emergency fund., a life saving etc. Then you hit hard times for whatever reason. That shyt gets depleted then what? Or you never even had time to build a significant trust before shyt went bad. And sometimes people do dumbshyt to jam themselves up and even when they try to recover circumstances don't let them recover "plan" and all.
I don't understand how you can say that discussing it doesn't help.
With that logic, why discuss anything ever?
Eh, your stupid. The hell difference does it matter if she was shopping at Nordstroms or Rainbow and doesn't matter what we can afford if she's spending the bill money.
Live beyond your means brehs. Since we came from being together while he was in school, and I was in my first full time job, we thought we ruled the world with that kind of money. He was driving a porsche, I was in a new wrangler, taking trips (only within the US but still) at least every 3 months, and so on....
You live and learn. That was a great lesson. The next- money isn't everything. Learned that one too.