Cause of divorce - finances

[Chesirecatdaddy]

What does that have to do with anything. Just because you on top of the world today don't mean you will remain there. Plenty of people went from the penthouse to the shyt house.

I know I sho nuff did ...and my whole family along with me.

all my hoes gone

my palace collapse (my haitians know what im talking about)

 

[Raye82]

Women, in my experience, are incapable of direct honesty.
They let their rage or insecurity prevent them from saying real un-sugarcoated shyt. They have to run away and calm down and think about how they want to phrase things. Or they ignore you altogether under the pretense of space.

Damn Raul, tell us how you really feel.

 

[Remote]

Damn Raul, tell us how you really feel.

I do.
Always.

I can't say the same for some of you.

 

[Raye82]

I do.
Always.

I can't say the same for some of you.

What chu mean?

 

[Remote]

What chu mean?

Just reiterating
I stand by that statement.
Try not to roll your eyes. Sarcasm is very unbecoming for an adult.

 

[bangedher_wholesquad]

I don't make much I pay for my half of everything. Even chip in on her bills. And still manage to get high all the time. If we get divorced it ain't gonna be money. I'm not making much and we are doing great.

 

[Remote]

I don't make much I pay for my half of everything. Even chip in on her bills. And still manage to get high all the time. If we get divorced it ain't gonna be money. I'm not making much and we are doing great.

How long have you been married?

 

[bangedher_wholesquad]

Lived together for 2 years. Going to get marries on our 10th anniversary. She is ride or die. Something most girls today do not possess. All they want is to make the next girl jealous.

 

[Remote]

Lived together for 2 years. Going to get marries on our 10th anniversary. She is ride or die. Something most girls today do not possess. All they want is to make the next girl jealous.

Congratulations.

 

[Shadow King]

because i like homemaking and waited 34 years before becoming a mom. noboby's taking this away from me

We need more like you.

 

[StickStickly]

Women, in my experience, are incapable of direct honesty.
They let their rage or insecurity prevent them from saying real un-sugarcoated shyt. They have to run away and calm down and think about how they want to phrase things. Or they ignore you altogether under the pretense of space.

How is coming back when you are calm and able to have a conversation a negative trait? That's the recommended way to deal with conflict. Do you have examples of how it is negative?

 

[Remote]

How is coming back when you are calm and able to have a conversation a negative trait? That's the recommended way to deal with conflict. Do you have examples of how it is negative?

It's not so much a negative trait as much as I find that too many women run away from arguments/discussions that are REAL and get to the heart of issues or the heart of who people REALLY are.

If a woman is upset and angry and they want to get away to cool off because they feel they might react in a violent way or something...that I respect. That shows good control.

But if she doesn't want to say what she's really thinking because she's afraid of what it could mean in the relationship...she's a coward. That, or she doesn't trust me enough to be able to handle it.
In either case, I've lose a certain degree of respect for her.

 

[Crakface]

There is no romance without finance. Remember that you broke ass nikkas. Remember that shyt. Yea what responsible woman doesnt want to be with some broke loser well into his 20's still riding the bus. Them dudes just need to stick to the fat/ugly/airheads and call it a life unless you ready for that next level. If you have the balls, to step up to it.

 

[Remote]

There is no romance without finance. Remember that you broke ass nikkas. Remember that shyt. Yea what responsible woman doesnt want to be with some broke loser well into his 20's still riding the bus. Them dudes just need to stick to the fat/ugly/airheads and call it a life unless you ready for that next level. If you have the balls, to step up to it.

Both ways bro.
What that girl's Experian report looking like

 

[Crakface]

Both ways bro.
What that girl's Experian report looking like

That mattering depends on how much money you're pulling in. The more you pull in, the less it matters.