I mean it's easy, but people are dumb as hell or just lazy.
Be smart as hell about who you choose. Jeter wouldn't fukk with Evelyn because of her baggage.
Keep a good circle of friends. There was a report that said Jeter really doesn't go out, a lot of the time he has get togethers at his house where people just chill, and his friends bring over girls they think he might like. A shytty friend would bring over a girl that's been ran through, scandalous, wouldn't keep her mouth shut. A good friend would bring over a good girl, one with a good head on her shoulders.
But some guys like chicks like Evelyn, the ones that bring drama.