Cheating Husband And Best Friend - I'm so sad...

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I remember cheating on my girl in college, she had a boyfriend back home too, her roomate had a dude back home and she was cheating on him too

I don't even wanna start on all the dating/married women that use to come through the bachelor pad :banderas:

we all cheat :mjlit:
 
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Ashley Banks said:
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B***h Puddin said:
My husband cheated on me, (I made a weak sappy thread about it...)

He ssys I should forgive and forget coz EVERYONE cheats...

Anyway I didnt discuss my betrayal with anyone as I wanted to be sure of what I really want to do before i discuss it with anyone...

I meet up with one of my close friends to finally talk about it. I was ready to go in on how aint shyt men are bla bla bla...

We are having a nice meal and I ask how her man is doing... They are good, the usual inane relationship stuff, she is hoping he proposes or pregnancy, whichever comes first . We are catching up with gossip and stories... Then she lets slip that she slept with someone else. She tries to backtrack but I insist she "spill the beans". It seems her man was out of town for work, he travels a lot, and takes her along whenever its convineint for them both.

While he was away she got horny and bored so she slept with some guy she met on a night out. I suspect there may be more "beans" but I think I have a reputation as a prude so I suppose some people tell me edited versions of stuff.

So now I'm looking at her across the table and decided not to talk about my no good husband.

I dont cheat, I have never felt the desire to cheat or lie to my husband. So there must be many like minded faithful people out there??? So surely there has to be a man who wants monogamy out there... I fear it might be a needle in a haystack type of thing. It seems its impossible to meet a (goodlooking) faithful man?

My question is :duck: aside are people or are you cheating that much?

Coz it seema like most posters have stories about side chicks trying to leave the side and take centre stage.

I feel so down, and feel like the only way to avoid the drama is to be single? Even though being single has its own issues...


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Husband cheated on me.
I decide to talk to friend and discover she has or is cheating on her boyfriend.
I feel down coz it seems no one actually wants or values monogamy.
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Hello.
First, I'd like to say that I'm sorry this happened to you.
Secondly, I'd like to encourage you to KEEP DOING THE RIGHT THING!!!
The world will tell you that you should get revenge and cheat on him back and watch him squirm, but that is NOT the right response. If anything, let him go sow his wild oats and find you someone that will respect you and honor you. Yes, that will be MEGA HARD in this "Ain't shyt" world that we live in...I can promise you that.
But if you want to find quality....it's hard.
You can try to stay in it, but I can promise you that if he gets away with it once....it will become the norm.
It's up to you to decide if you want to live a life like that....
Like the rest of the savages out there.

ME: I am a modern man that doesn't cheat on his wife and we've been married almost 15 years. I believe that we are faithful to each other but I'm prepared for any bad news with bullets.
Now...I've had 3 distinct opportunities to cheat on my wife...and turned down all of them. As much as I would love to say "Oh man I pulled this chick" or "This female came up to me and offered it up and I sexed her to sleep"
I just can't do it.
I love my wife and more than that...she's my friend too. Friends aren't easy for me to come by...I'm not a very friendly person honestly.
But for me, it's simple....
I got married for life.
One time only...one woman only...that's all.
 
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ORDER_66 said:
Never cheated, never needed to cheat... bytches be trifling and betrayed me anyways... So now I don't date and I don't do relationships... :manny:
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Sorry to hear that breh. I'm hoping you get the chance to fall in love with a good one....if there's any part of you that still desires such a thing.

If not, I salute you for surviving and finding a way through the pain.
:salute:

My first love cheated on me.
The one I initially wanted to do everything in life with.
She lied....I left...she got what she was asking for.
:pachaha:

I'm much better off than her now...hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha!!!!
:bryan:
 
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I think the way the world is going monogamy is going to be played out. Just this year alone 4 married women approached me and two of them had open relationships. I say by 2025 monogamy will be considered old school. Feminism allowed women to do what they want sexual and not feel any type of way about what society at large thinks of them . I think men are just going with the flow of things and figure out how to maneuver amongst feminism and not complain about.

I hear you OP cheating is trash and personal I dont know why you would do it in 2018. With how information is moved around from phone to phone social media to social media it just dosent make sense TO me. People also need to be more honest about their sexuality if you wanna be with more than one women commincate that and let the women decide. Most men want do this cause their ego is attached same goes for women if you know you want an open relationship then put that on the table cause cheating is trash and not nessasary going forward.
 
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B***h Puddin said:
Before - A fair amount of sex.

After - I tried but just couldnt get images od him cheating out of my head. So I was like lets just stop wasting each others time. So we dont have sex anymore. He tries. Do I feel the need to have sex? - Yes. But my dislike of him is still stronger. I'm sure he is sleeping with another person(s). I remind him regularly he is free to leave me or shut up and live the way I want.
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Wait so you haven't left him and y'all dont have sex at all ?
 
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Flywin Lannister said:
Can we get a poll included of how many losers we think slid into OPs DMs on some "hey I'm always there to talk" pathetic shyt?

Just spitting facts
:manny:
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I bet the numbers were high as shyt.
Honestly, why would you wanna mess with a female going thru something like this...
I don't get it.
 
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