In my experience, only dudes that never really get/got women have this huge reaction to cheating. Not saying that all desirable men cheat, but even those that don't understand the situation.
Hell most women understand it, even if they don't like it. You think a woman is leaving a man that treats her like a queen and is a good provider and husband, just because he got some head at the strip club?
Numbers don't lie - the bottom 50% of men that get no play are STARVING out here, yeesh
OP, how long you been married?