I am married and the one thing my wife knows above all else is that if she cheats on me, basically betraying me and our marriage vows in the most selfish way possible, I'm dropping her. This is regardless of children, property, finances, etc.
As a man, if I'm working my hardest, providing for our marriage, being faithful, and honoring the
COMMITMENT that was made in our union, she had better be doing all the above. A relationship is a 50-50 partnership, if I'm loyal then YOU are loyal. If I'm supportive then YOU are supportive. There is absolutely 0 excuse for either person to be unfaithful. I hold myself to these standards as well, especially being in the military. There's p*ssy literally EVERYWHERE in the military being thrown at you. Some of these women I work with, deploy with, am on missions with, I see and interact with more than I do my wife. I however, made a
COMMITMENT to this woman that I would be loving, supportive, and faithful so long as we both shall live and I intend to honor that. No amount of loose p*ssy can make me be unfaithful unless I
CONCSCIOUSLY decide to indulge, which is a matter of self-control.
If a woman cannot display this basic level of self control then why be with her? All of this "but the kids/the house/the money" is ultimately irrelevant if you are sharing them with a person who had NO RESPECT for you than to honor her commitments. Her being unfaithful shows a lack of respect for not only you, but everything you have sacrificed and compromised within marriage. Her sucking and fukking the next nikka is her holding the middle finger up to everything you as the man should stand for...
Everything else, in my opinion is nothing more than an excuse. If I ever did have children, and taught them to respect themselves and hold themselves in high merit, then I would be little more than a hypocrite staying in a marriage where my wife had such little respect for everything that was sacrificed on my end for the betterment of the relationship that she would go fukk somebody else on some "it's just sex" mentality
would I want my son growing up with THAT as an example of a father who respects himself and in turn demands the respect of those around him? Would I want my daughter living with the example that unfaithfulness and slutty behavior warrant no consequence?
And would I be able to live with myself if I allowed a selfish and ungrateful woman to continue benefiting from my hard work, support, and honesty?
There is a saying my father told me when i was young, A Selfish Woman Is Satan's Plaything. Think about the ESPN chick we are all laughing and giving Jalen Rose props over. This bytch is married, with children and on LIVE TELEVISION making googly eyes at another man with not a care in the world..
COMPLETE disrespect for the man she made vows with, the father of her children, the supposed "Head" of the household. This man is now dealing with public embarrassment because his wife was so selfish she couldn't even wait until the cameras stopped rolling to get her whore on. THIS is the type of people we are giving passes to if we just "try to make it work". That is the WRONG answer. If a person (male or female, I am simply speaking from a male point of view since that is my gender) has such little respect for you that she's willing to meet a man, go to the house/hotel/bedroom/car with him, allow him to undress her, and proceed to the act of sexual gratification with him without ONCE thinking about her marriage, then there is absolutely
NOTHING to be worked on...
