Cheating

[Steve Piffler]

Its like this whether you married or not YOU CAN'T STOP SOMEBODY FROM CHEATING its that simple. That's reality of the situation. Don't dwell on it at all. Don't accuse that person either. Unless you got proof just enjoy what you have with that person. Sure u might think it and u want to find out go for it more power too you. Unless you got photos or catch em in the act Y STRESS THE HELL OUT ABOUT IT.

I've been cheated on before and i be lying to say it dont hurt it does especially if you love them a lot. People cheat because they choose too. You could give them the world and they will still do it. THIS IS LIFE.

The best way to handle it is if you did your best gave them your all and they cheat ya it will hurt but you can hold your head up high and say you know what I gave you my all and you did me wrong I deserve better and will get with someone better who appreciates me for who I am. If you come running back my door will be shut closed cuz you messed up a good thing

Dane Cook: Vicious Circle "Weep-a-thon" (I Did My Best) - YouTube

 

[twan83]

Dane Cook: Vicious Circle "Weep-a-thon" (I Did My Best) - YouTube

i did my best i did my best i did my best

 

[KnowledgeIsQueen]

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Probably thought I was DEEP dropping jewels on the masses when I wrote that ;)

*Fixed*

 

[Buckeye Fever]

I never understand when folks are cheated on they stick around waste years more of their lives get cheated on again then finally move on.

If I ever become a simp and get married and my wife cheats, that's it the very next time I will see her is in court, no counseling, therapy, it's done finish over.

I know a lot of pussified individuals out there stay for their kids , being stressed out daily as their wife goes out "grocery shopping" or a unknown number on her phone.

 

[Emperor Sol]

You cheat. You die. Simple.

Sierra Mist, a real G

 

[GoldenGlove]

My wife just texted me this...

Spoiler

I'll keep yal posted

She ended up going to his house the next morning to drop off some old dead ass flowers that he gave her for VALENTINE's Day along with a card that I'm sure she poured her heart out in.

But...

Now another friend of mine just hit me up talking about she just added him on Facebook and he trying to take her out this weekend. I'm a have to tell him that she's on some trying to rebound shyt, but COTDAYUM at you literally breaking down crying on Wednesday... waiting outside of a dude's house all night, calling the cops on him, coming back the next day to drop off a pity package of shyt, and then by Friday you're adding "mutual" friends and entertaining hanging out with someone else already?



Unstable as shyt

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

How do you know that you are satisfied with what you have until you had something else?

know yourself and don't rely on others to fill voids in your life, that's how...

 

[GoldenGlove]

Me: Yal chatting on FB right now?

My boy: yea we goin to the rink sat at 11...yall should come

Me: Nah man...That's all you bro

I can see right through this bullshyt

 

[GoldenGlove]

My boy is a fool brehs, jesus

 

[DrunkenNovice]

Should a burner phone always be a pre-paid, or should I add a line

 

[Jesus Shuttlesworth]

I don't know where yall nikkas be finding these hoes.

Granted I have a gift for making women fall deeply in love with me but every chick I've ever been serious with has been loyal as fukk to the point I've never even worried about such things.

And I never cheated on anybody I was committed to so no karma to worry about either.

 

[Thegospel]

Cheating is for immature lames. .........but I don't consider getting head cheating

 

[Max B]

I cheated on.my ex girlfriend many times. It csuse.im a nikka and thats what we do

 

[BantuKnotz99]

Has nothing to do with the act of sex, it all boils down to betrayal, IMO.

If you find out your S/O is unfaithful and decide to stay, your imagination will constantly conjure up situations that only exist in your mind. But, to you they're real or have the possibility of happening. Said thoughts will lead to animosity, bickering, then resentment. The aforementioned on top of the inability to trust is a recipe for disaster whether you're married or not.

I'm going through this now,my girl cheated on me 2 years ago and I took her back n that shyt still plagues my mind on a daily...2years of thoughts of anger and resentment

 

[Crakface]

I am married and the one thing my wife knows above all else is that if she cheats on me, basically betraying me and our marriage vows in the most selfish way possible, I'm dropping her. This is regardless of children, property, finances, etc.

As a man, if I'm working my hardest, providing for our marriage, being faithful, and honoring the COMMITMENT that was made in our union, she had better be doing all the above. A relationship is a 50-50 partnership, if I'm loyal then YOU are loyal. If I'm supportive then YOU are supportive. There is absolutely 0 excuse for either person to be unfaithful. I hold myself to these standards as well, especially being in the military. There's p*ssy literally EVERYWHERE in the military being thrown at you. Some of these women I work with, deploy with, am on missions with, I see and interact with more than I do my wife. I however, made a COMMITMENT to this woman that I would be loving, supportive, and faithful so long as we both shall live and I intend to honor that. No amount of loose p*ssy can make me be unfaithful unless I CONCSCIOUSLY decide to indulge, which is a matter of self-control.

If a woman cannot display this basic level of self control then why be with her? All of this "but the kids/the house/the money" is ultimately irrelevant if you are sharing them with a person who had NO RESPECT for you than to honor her commitments. Her being unfaithful shows a lack of respect for not only you, but everything you have sacrificed and compromised within marriage. Her sucking and fukking the next nikka is her holding the middle finger up to everything you as the man should stand for...


Everything else, in my opinion is nothing more than an excuse. If I ever did have children, and taught them to respect themselves and hold themselves in high merit, then I would be little more than a hypocrite staying in a marriage where my wife had such little respect for everything that was sacrificed on my end for the betterment of the relationship that she would go fukk somebody else on some "it's just sex" mentality would I want my son growing up with THAT as an example of a father who respects himself and in turn demands the respect of those around him? Would I want my daughter living with the example that unfaithfulness and slutty behavior warrant no consequence? And would I be able to live with myself if I allowed a selfish and ungrateful woman to continue benefiting from my hard work, support, and honesty?

There is a saying my father told me when i was young, A Selfish Woman Is Satan's Plaything. Think about the ESPN chick we are all laughing and giving Jalen Rose props over. This bytch is married, with children and on LIVE TELEVISION making googly eyes at another man with not a care in the world.. COMPLETE disrespect for the man she made vows with, the father of her children, the supposed "Head" of the household. This man is now dealing with public embarrassment because his wife was so selfish she couldn't even wait until the cameras stopped rolling to get her whore on. THIS is the type of people we are giving passes to if we just "try to make it work". That is the WRONG answer. If a person (male or female, I am simply speaking from a male point of view since that is my gender) has such little respect for you that she's willing to meet a man, go to the house/hotel/bedroom/car with him, allow him to undress her, and proceed to the act of sexual gratification with him without ONCE thinking about her marriage, then there is absolutely NOTHING to be worked on...

YOu a newlywed?

Have you got through 10 years yet?